Hey, I'm an 18 year old, soon to be 19 in a few months, who's never done much more then anything with a girl besides make out. (And I've only pleasured a girl once with my hand, and she gave me a ha****b..during which my erection kept coming and going) but thats it. I haven't had a girlfriend for about a year or so, and now that I'm in University, I find it hard to approch girls because I'm still a virgin. I masterbate at least once every 3 or 4 days, once I look at porn, I've got to start playing with it before it gets hard, but when I'm dirty dancing with a girl, kind of feeling her up and stuff, it doesn't pick up. Anyway, my problem is I'm afraid of doing anything with a girl because I'm not sure wheather or not I'll be able to keep an erect penis. I've seen alot of answers being Anxoity (and I've only had one known case which was about a month ago I took an attack) I feel lonely and I want a girlfriend or even approch a random girl, if we hit it off, maybe something will come of it. Any thoughts as to why this could be? Or am I just being a parinoid id**t?
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Just go for it. If you need a little help, rub your penis on the outside of her vagina, start at the bottom and go up for the clitoris. I find it helps when things seem a little weak down there.
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Well, not all girls are looking for a guy to have sex with right off the bat. I mean, try to find a girl who you can really get to know and love first before you go into sex. Once you get to the point where you are no longer shy around her... I'm sure that will help. Also, I don't know of your religious background but if you've been taught it's wrong all your life, that's probably not helping matters either. Whatever your beliefs are, if you are going against them, nothings going to work like you think they will!!
but seriously darling, don't worry about the sex part yet. Find you a girl to love, not just to have sex with.
but seriously darling, don't worry about the sex part yet. Find you a girl to love, not just to have sex with.
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