Hi, I'm 16.
My boyfriend & I have been getting pretty serious. Its been about almost a year, & his family likes me & my family likes him. I go to his house 2 times a week. When I do I get a little crazy, like i cant control myself. Im sexually attracted to him & Im still a virgin. So all i wanted to know is like a heads up. What should i expect from this? While it effect me phyisically or emotionally? Will it make our relationship wierd/awkward? Will it hurt? What are the best ways to have "sex" for the first time? I just need answer to ANY of these questions. You dont have to be an expert, just experienced. Thank you, i appreciate it in advanced :)
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Hi Speak,
1. It can hurt. Take your time, make sure you are very wet, and use some lube if you have any. Then, take your time. Don't rush it.
2. It WILL change your relationship, big time. You're "giving yourself to him."
3. There is no "right" way to have sex. Do what you are both comfortable with.
4. USE PROTECTION! BEFORE there is any sexual contact and ALWAYS. You can get pregnant the first time.
Hope it helps.
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Everyone is different regarding when they're ready to become sexually active. Some feel ready in their early teens while some feel only ready in their 20s.
What should you expect? Well that will depend on what goes on between you both. Psychologically it will be a big thing for you. You will become a woman.
Will it affect you physically and emotionally? You bet. And I can tell you that if your first time experience goes really well, and you have sex a few times initially and it continues to go really well, you will want to have sex frequently. If initially it doesn't go well, you'll probably just think what was all the fuss about and not bother too much about it until one day when you have a partner who shows you what sex really is all about!
Will it make your relationship weird/awkward? You seem to know your boyfriend pretty well so my guess is no, it won't feel weird or awkward.
Will it hurt? This depends on your physical make up. Based on my own personal experience with virgins, if you do not have an intact hymen, it should be no problem and he'll slip into you nicely. The problem is if you have a hymen, depending on its make up, it could give way easily or it could be a quick stabbing pain when he first forces through it, which could also result in some bleeding.
The best ways to have sex the first time? As this is your first time, I would suggest your boyfriend lays down, or sits down, and you lower your self onto his erect penis so that in this way you can control the situation to your liking. Once his penis is inside you, just take your time... do it slowly... don't rush... just let yourself get caught up in your own feelings and enjoy the pleasure.
Good luck, girl!
What should you expect? Well that will depend on what goes on between you both. Psychologically it will be a big thing for you. You will become a woman.
Will it affect you physically and emotionally? You bet. And I can tell you that if your first time experience goes really well, and you have sex a few times initially and it continues to go really well, you will want to have sex frequently. If initially it doesn't go well, you'll probably just think what was all the fuss about and not bother too much about it until one day when you have a partner who shows you what sex really is all about!
Will it make your relationship weird/awkward? You seem to know your boyfriend pretty well so my guess is no, it won't feel weird or awkward.
Will it hurt? This depends on your physical make up. Based on my own personal experience with virgins, if you do not have an intact hymen, it should be no problem and he'll slip into you nicely. The problem is if you have a hymen, depending on its make up, it could give way easily or it could be a quick stabbing pain when he first forces through it, which could also result in some bleeding.
The best ways to have sex the first time? As this is your first time, I would suggest your boyfriend lays down, or sits down, and you lower your self onto his erect penis so that in this way you can control the situation to your liking. Once his penis is inside you, just take your time... do it slowly... don't rush... just let yourself get caught up in your own feelings and enjoy the pleasure.
Good luck, girl!
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Yes, you can get pregnant the first time. Be careful.
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