So to be completely blunt, i have a red dot on my shaft. it just showed up today and i had sex about 3 days ago, and the day before that. its also around the hair line going up my shaft. the condom goes a little bit further down. What could this bump be?... could it be an ingrown hair or a hair pulled?

its soo small i cant tell if the thing in teh middle is white or not and it sliiiiightly hurts to touch or squeeze.