So to be completely blunt, i have a red dot on my shaft. it just showed up today and i had sex about 3 days ago, and the day before that. its also around the hair line going up my shaft. What could this bump be?... could it be an ingrown hair or a hair pulled? i do shave occassionally, not for a while though. I just want to make sure i don't have genital warts or something crazy. It doesn't itch, and i only felt it because i was going to the bathroom. It's reallllly small right now. its soo small i cant tell if the thing in the middle is white or not and it sliiiiightly hurts to touch or squeeze.

my girlfriend had a pap not too long ago and everything came back fine except she has hpv, but the smallest or w/e you call it case there is. the doctor told her she has nothing to worry about and to just keep getting checked up on. i did a bunch of research on all this but i'm still confused.