Hi, i knw this topic has been brought up many times before...but i feel the need to get more info - from medical experts, hopefully n ppl who share exactly my woe...to guide me to the right direction...hopefully
i'm late 30s. single...nvr had sex...yes...its true (sadly?)...just my personal choice - cant do it without any emotional attachment, i supposed n since i've not found the right one...respect that pls
whilst i can take charge whether to hv sex or not, my body however still goes through the biological/ chemistry process over the years, of which are beyond my control…n that’s where one of the things - sex urges - are inevitable. Masturbation is my only (most) comforting n “helpful” outlet. Been doing that ever since teens but obviously frequency has diminished over the years but nvr ceased since it fills the void of my sexual needs, being one of human’s basic needs.
Of late, I noticed small blobs of semen (cloudy n very slippery/sticky, definitely not pre-cum) is discharged after urinating sometimes, esp when I tried to squeeze out any remaining urine. This happens only after urinating or excited like watching porn, not any other occasions & ONLY when I’ve ABSTAINED from masturbating for a couple weeks to a mth or so. Curious to find out, I scavenged thru the net n found out that most info lead to the cause of over-masturbation. I’m confused n the same time worried. Some of my queries are :
1) As I’ve mentioned this happens only when I stopped masturbating for some period (n only after urinating at times & sexually excited). Could the leakage due to overflow of semen? During this time of abstain, my urge to masturbate (sexual orientation) tend to be stronger. Pre-cum easily too at any point of excitement. Once I give in n ejaculated, the leakage nvr happens until such time I abstain for another long period where the urges kicks-in again.
2) Some say masturbation is good n vice versa. Now I hear over-masturbation. I understand that anything done excessively is no good. Comparatively with other males who have sex partners, I admit my masturbation habit tends to be higher than them but that’s my only alternative to sex….n I do it ONLY ONCE a week when i indulge in some porn, at times maybe fortnightly or the longest abt 1-2mths once. Is this considered over-masturbation? Does too much sex also lead to negative repercussions then?
3) I work out at the gym abt 3 times a week but that doesn’t exhaust my urges completely. I take multi-vits, watched my diet n health relatively well…is considered reasonably fit n healthy. Since I’m not into sex (yet), can masturbation be continued? Based on my current frequency? Still too much?
4) Some ppl say to keep oneself occupied with other social activities so as to distract from sex/ masturbate urges – at the end of the day when I hit the bed all alone n the urge kick in jst before sleep n early morning (wood), what shld I do? Can be pretty frustrating.
5) Over-masturbating is said to also cause erectile problems. Though not as prevalent during my younger days, I do still get morning woods n hard when stroked. It can be as hard esp if my urges are strong enough. Should I be concern then?
Desperately seeking some/ any helpful views. Thks
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Semen in the urine could be the result of retrograde ejaculation, which means that some semen is being directed into the bladder, rather than outward, on ejaculation. This is not generally a big problem, but in some cases it can affect fertility; at any rate, it is definitely a good idea to bring it up with the doctor to find out the underlying cause. In the meantime, there is no need to worry about masturbating; it is not going to affect your ability to get an erection. The main thing you want to watch out for here is that your body becomes so accustomed to your own touch that you may be less likely to respond to a partner, should you decide to go that route. To avoid this problem, it is helpful to mix up your technique, use different objects (like a feather or a piece of silk) for stimulation, and to apply a penis health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) that can help to maintain the integrity of the penile tissue.
Good luck!
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too much masturbating results in this same as me but it stopped for me because i masturbate once a month but right now quit masturbating for 8 months totally. eat only vegatable because most meat helps produce a lot of sperm making you masturbate. stop thinking about sex and girls for 8 months. excercise every two days a week . it will burn calories so less will be available to your body for making sperm thus decreasing your desire for masturbation.when you eat food eat it slowly and chew slowly. dont fill your stomch 100 percent leave your stomch a bit percent empty. drink less soda once a week. these are based on my experiences as an adult and these ideas are sucessfull if you try you best i am 22 years old.
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