my girlfriend and i usually have disputes because i think she does not respect me over the fone but when she is with me behaves normally and i can see that she regret some of the things she said.she even said she want to change.the problem with her is if i ask her whay she did a particular thing or why she said it etc she would just be angry and put the blame on me and this angers me a lot.I tried to break up with her a few times but she comes back to me within a few hours and say she knows she hurt me very much but i must find it in my heart to forgive her.she also cries a lot when i complain to her or dump her.what can be the problem?help!!!when i ask if she loves me she answers with no doubts that she loves me and tell me how special i am to her.if it was not for her we would have broken up a long time ago.