should i tell my parents im pleasuring myself

I think that would probably be a good idea. She probably has guessed anyway. It might help your relationship with her, and open up the way to talk about sex and relationships in the future.

1. Why is it that "she is my only parent"?
   1. What happened to your father?
   2. Why does the question use the plural 'parents'?
2. Has she talked to you about sex?
3. What are her attitudes to sex?
4. How do you masturbate (technique)?
5. How often do masturbate?
6. Where are you from?
7. Are there any cultural/religious implications?

I hope this helps as a start.

Hi Guest
I don’t think you need to tell your mom what you are doing it is the same thing that most boys your age do.
Masturbation is perfectly normal and it won’t harm you and you are not doing anything wrong.
Your mom probably already knows that boys your age masturbate and that it is a normal part of growing up and discovering the enjoyment of self pleasure.
You should not feel any shame or think you are doing something wrong because you masturbate if you feel you need to tell your mom that is fine it may be a bit of an uncomfortable conversation depending on how open you and your mom are with each other.
So what you are doing in the privacy of your own room or wherever you do it is really no one’s concern clean up after you’re done and enjoy doing this perfectly normal thing.
Also you don’t need to give any more information about why you live with your mom only it is no one’s business, your technique is whatever you like and nobodies concern, where your dad is does not matter when it comes to masturbation and no one’s buisiness and where you live should never be answered to an online stranger.
So rest easy you are a normal boy doing the same thing most boys do and it is a normal part of growing up and there is nothing wrong with doing it in secret.

You are in danger of adding to the guilt factor that many have about doing it secretly, maybe from your own insecurities.
There is no compulsion to tell his mother, but you have given no good reason why you think it is unnecessary, nor considered the benefits of so doing.

Of course it is normal. It is not harmful usually, depending on the technique and frequency, but don't ignore the impact of the cultural or religious background. You and I may think it not wrong, but culturally or religiously it may be. I have already said that his mom probably already knows; No shame need necessarily be attached, but you are the one raising the thought os shame unnecessarily. However, you are ignoring the fact that there may be cultural issues to be taken into account, and you need to be sensitive about that, otherwise a cavalier attitude could cause problems.

It may be an uncomfortable chat, which is why I asked certain questions to try and help with the decision.
You are making this seem shameful by saying that what is done in the privacy of his room is no-one else's concern. Well he has raised the subject. It does not necessarily have to be a secret fact. If he knows his mother understands what he does, he could well feel better about it, and discuss other matter with her. If that can be done, all well and good.

If you want to give positive help, the more known about the circumstances the better.
Information given here is anonymous, and country or district of residence is often revealed. Personal details like email address and postal address are not allowed anyway and would probably be edited out. It is of course important to stay safe online. There may be nothing wrong with doing it in secret, but maternal acceptance will make the practice more enjoyable.
However to give advice without knowing the setting of the question is not helpful and could be harmful.

He doesn't need to tell his mother. Masturbation is normal. Do it in private or someone u r in a relationship with, when u r a bit older. Clean up after ur self. Ur normal. Enjoy. Don't ever mix religion and sex. Live ur young life. Be kind treat others as u wish to be treated.

Ummmm how do i ( girl ) tell my mum that I self pleasure. Again my mum is my only parent also she has a viabrator. .

Why do you feel the need to tell her? Some things in life are simply your own private doings. There is no need to be ashamed of it or go crazy attempting to hide it but it's not a necessary subject for a dinner table discussion. If she asks about it or happens to see you it's just normal and I'm pretty sure she must have done it at your age and apparently still does. If you want to ask her about it, go ahead. You know she has a vibrator so apparently she doesn't feel the need to hide it from you. You should be able to ask her questions about masturbation if you wish. She might even welcome the opportunity to talk with you about it and other sex related things.