Hi I apologize for my crude and uncouth behavior. I shouldnt have been downing the ones who are asking for help. I was taught that the only stupid question is the one you dont. I know I made some very good points, but I didnt have to be a penis about it. This is a touchy subject for me bc my little sister is 15 now, so she is getting to be in this bracket of age. I am 24, so I'm not some fossil telling you what to do, it is hearing you young ladies talk about anal sex, and places where your boyfriend cums on you kinda hit a nerve. Bc Lindsey(my sister) just got her first serious boyfriend. She is a fifteen year old freshman cheerleader with straight A's and he is a seventeen year old high school quarterback. I understand that she is growing up, but everytime I try to talk to her about sleeping around she goes crazy. So I know it is kinda too late to change her mind, but I guess I should just be supportive of whatever endeavor she chooses. My big deal is that I missed the part of her life in which I might couldve persuaded her one way or another bc I stayed high all the time. I went from college to rehad, then again to college, then on to a long term treament facility, and then back to college this last time. I just feel really really guilty bc if something happen to my Lin Lin, I just dont know if I could make it.
But once again I apologize for acting like a fool
I just had a little breakdown
But once again I apologize for acting like a fool
I just had a little breakdown
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It's ok Stubby. That was very big of you to apologize. Like I said you were not wrong you just chose some harsh words at the end. We have a few things in common; I'm 24 with a 16yr old sister who is popular, into cheerleading and everything else, so I do understand your emotional ties to this subject. Teens usually shut out adults and people that can actually help and or educate them about these things. They only want to talk to their peers (the blind leading the blind). My sister only comes to me when she needs help getting out of trouble. I dont exsist before the mistake. When I believed that my sister was about to become sexually active I gave her condoms (and showed her how to put it on a cucumber). Then I told her that adult actions come with adult consequences and responsibilities like pregnancy, STDs, and relationship complications. I told her "when or if" she decided to become active to use the condoms to protect herself. I also took her to the doctor and we got her some birth control. At that point I had done all that I could do. Sometimes she wants to hear about my experiences and sometimes not. She is the type that has to learn from her own mistakes. She thinks she is smarter than everyone else.
On a more positive note, I am glad that you are receptive to help and that you are determined to finish college. Don't give up. I dont think that you will. You seem like a fighter. I just graduated from college May2007. It is a wonderful feeling of accomplishment. Good luck in all that you do.
On a more positive note, I am glad that you are receptive to help and that you are determined to finish college. Don't give up. I dont think that you will. You seem like a fighter. I just graduated from college May2007. It is a wonderful feeling of accomplishment. Good luck in all that you do.
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