the way I learned what self-pleasuring is made me despise it and view it as disgusting

Also, if it means anything, I'm 13, 14 in a week.

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I was wondering what is the way you learned to masturbate there are many ways to masturbate out there but what is the one you first learned because some people find other masturbation techniques gross and some pleasurable and fine, Also you can have your opinion on masturbating whether you despise it and think it's disgusting or like it and find it pleasurable. I wouldn't start watching any porn as it can affect you in your life and sex life I would advise you to not look at it again but if you want to sometime I guess that's ok but don't get to addicted as it can become and addicting thing.

Well, by "learning" I meant of its existence, not method. I'm in a Christian household, so that's never mentioned, and when it is mentioned in school, it is always in a negative light.

Also, as for the porn thing, what should I use to become arroused if I can't use pornography?

At your age your body produces sperm which it needs to get rid of in order to make more sperm. Thats why to get rid of it is so pleasurable. When you wake up in the morning with a stiffy just give it a rub up and down and you will soon spurt some juice. Porn will just get you harder quicker otherwise just think nice girls doing things to you!!

If you need something to become aroused you should have no problem abstaining. When I was a teen I certainly needed nothing to get aroused, just touching myself would do it, or thinking about the cute girl at school. I got erections just because I was alive and breathing. That made me want to beat it down. If it's a chore for you to get in the mood, why do it?