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I would advise not watching porn.
If you watch porn and masturbate to it, I believe you are being unfaithful. Would you be happy telling your girlfriend what you are doing?
Porn can desensitise you, and give you a false sense of what sex is about, and often ruins relationships.
Where are you from, and what are the cultural or religious implications of any of the issues for you and your girl? How old are you both?
If I can help any more, please ask. You can private message me if necessary (although public answers can help others)
Look forward to hearing from you.
Hope this helps
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I just went yo Paris with her, school trip, and we kissed shortly.
Does this change the situation?
i've watch porn since i was.. 13 i guess. im 15 now.
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No, it does not change my advice. In Denmark, although pornography is not illegal, you still have to be 15 to buy it. So you have been watching it for two years before it was legal to buy in your own country.
Porn is age-restricted in many countries because it is dangerous. I would strongly advise avoiding pornography altogether, and concentrate on forming a proper boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. Get to know her as a person, not as just a body. To do that, you may well find you have to recover from the damage already done by watching porn, particularly at such a young age.
Many fine relationships start at 15, and no doubt Paris was quite a romantic setting, so get to know her personality, her hopes and fears, and her interests. Try and clean out many of the images (often faked, and choreographed) that you will have had ingrained on your mind through watching porn.
If you are a Christian (as opposed to just being of a Christian culture), think too about the damaging spiritual implications of watching porn. If you are a Christian, then pray about it. Defiled images defile the mind and can lead to defiling behaviour.
Have respect for your girlfriend, and treat her with respect.
I trust this helps, and you have a great relationship with this girl.
Take care
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