well, im here because my boyfriend fingered me (didn't have sex) but i don't know if he had any pre-cum on them or not but im concerned since about a week later, i had some bleeding, lasted for about 3 days but it wasn't very heavy and it had only been about a couple of weeks since my last period and im pretty regular; im a virgin and i was a bit uncomfortable down there for the next day but was fine after that. i've heard of spotting and all that, was that what it was? besides that, im not feeling any different, but now i really wished i paid more attention to my body. i would really like to get some info so i know whether i should start banging my head against the wall or am able to breathe a sigh of relief. thank you for anything that might help.