I'm sixteen in a few months but me and my boyfriend of three years dont want to have sex untill then. I'm worried that when we do have sex my vagina will be too tight? Is there anyway i can loosen it a little?[/list][/enc]
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There isn't anything to worry about until the time you actually do decide to have sexual intercourse. Just when you do decide to use protection and go slow! Pain is normal and it will probably continue to hurt for the next couple times you have sex.
But if you really feel like you have to then I guess you could try stretching with fingers.
But if you really feel like you have to then I guess you could try stretching with fingers.
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Thank you for waiting so long, being legal is such a good thing. :-)
When you go to get condoms, pick up a small packet of lubricant as well, this should help things go easier no matter how well "prepared" you are, a little extra lubricant can't hurt.
Make sure you actually buy a sexual lubricant as things such as cooking oil and grease will erode condoms and make them not work.
Take your time to get comfy with each other, it's worth spending time getting to know each other intimately without sex by experimenting with foreplay.
There's never any rush for sex - which is why I smiled when I saw how long you had been together and the fact that you both waited!
Your Hykmen will be what will cause pain - if it's still intact.
The hymen is a thin layer of skin inside the vagina which is often broken during first intercourse. It can be broken by other things: tampons, horseback riding, areobics ect, basically anything with lots of stretching! If you are unsure of pain levels then try with fingers (his or yours as this can be a fun way of discovering each other without going straight for sex) and slowly increase the number of fingers. This should give you some idea as to what it will kinda feel like and make things a little easier for you if your body gets used to the idea of penerative sex.
Good luck girly, and well done!
When you go to get condoms, pick up a small packet of lubricant as well, this should help things go easier no matter how well "prepared" you are, a little extra lubricant can't hurt.
Make sure you actually buy a sexual lubricant as things such as cooking oil and grease will erode condoms and make them not work.
Take your time to get comfy with each other, it's worth spending time getting to know each other intimately without sex by experimenting with foreplay.
There's never any rush for sex - which is why I smiled when I saw how long you had been together and the fact that you both waited!
Your Hykmen will be what will cause pain - if it's still intact.
The hymen is a thin layer of skin inside the vagina which is often broken during first intercourse. It can be broken by other things: tampons, horseback riding, areobics ect, basically anything with lots of stretching! If you are unsure of pain levels then try with fingers (his or yours as this can be a fun way of discovering each other without going straight for sex) and slowly increase the number of fingers. This should give you some idea as to what it will kinda feel like and make things a little easier for you if your body gets used to the idea of penerative sex.
Good luck girly, and well done!
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