Hi all , recently my girlfriend has had surgery for appendicitis, everything went fine but because it has been so long since we have had sex it hurts alot. We bought ky and everything , we were able to first have sex again but as soon as I pulled out and tried to go back in , the pain was unbearable for her and there is no way for me to go back in because it would hurt too much. Please help we don't know what to do :-( We have only had sex with each other and we have had great sex for at least a year.