so i am gay male and i have this friend whom i really like and i would love to be more than friends, but he is kinda being complicated and unclear to me. he says hes straight but i think other wise. he is younger than me and i think due to age and not sure his self if he is gay hes not out yet, and im in no way pressuring him to come out to me or othe people i want him to do that on hisnon terms. we have shared the same bed before spooning and cuddling(nothing else), we have been to dinner and a movie, and will talk for hours on the phone. i really like this boy and am seeking advice on what to do.

any advice would be much appreciated