Reason for Lack of erection after ejaculation and its remedy?this is at the age of 20
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Er, being male dude.
Why do you think in the movies it is always 'guys roll over and fall asleep'.
Hey, job done. Nature is giving us time off. Enjoy it. You'll be turned on again soon enough.
Don't believe bragging, videos, magazines, or whatever - you want to be a porn star, learn porn star tricks (or how to edit a movie).
Want to be normal: job done, lose erection, relax, sleep (if your girlfriend allows it, and you want to), chat - major opportunity to be warm, loving, tender, all the things she (or partner) wants.
Hint: your body's fine - that frees you up to start worrying about your partner's: did she/he really have a good time? What do they like? etc. etc. etc.
Second hint: if that seems like giving up and being a bad lover, it ain't gonna change, so change the routine: give your partner pleasure first, save yours to later; and when you find a rhythm you like, play to that: once a day, once an hour, once a week, everyone's different. Women come anything from never (rare) to constantly (rare, thank god, not nearly as much fun as you might think), but don't have a 'job' to do - so they get to lie back and enjoy it - there's a reason for the cliches (in fact lying back AFTER is recommended practice to allow the sperm your press-ups have just generated time to make the rest of their commute).
Your body is essentially a fire-extinguisher: first build up the pressure, then expel the 'foam' (sperm), then job done, nothing left, discard the empty (you). Just as well nature builds in auto-recharge, or girls would be ditching us after one date...
Basically, you're normal - learn to use what you have, and enjoy it.
Why do you think in the movies it is always 'guys roll over and fall asleep'.
Hey, job done. Nature is giving us time off. Enjoy it. You'll be turned on again soon enough.
Don't believe bragging, videos, magazines, or whatever - you want to be a porn star, learn porn star tricks (or how to edit a movie).
Want to be normal: job done, lose erection, relax, sleep (if your girlfriend allows it, and you want to), chat - major opportunity to be warm, loving, tender, all the things she (or partner) wants.
Hint: your body's fine - that frees you up to start worrying about your partner's: did she/he really have a good time? What do they like? etc. etc. etc.
Second hint: if that seems like giving up and being a bad lover, it ain't gonna change, so change the routine: give your partner pleasure first, save yours to later; and when you find a rhythm you like, play to that: once a day, once an hour, once a week, everyone's different. Women come anything from never (rare) to constantly (rare, thank god, not nearly as much fun as you might think), but don't have a 'job' to do - so they get to lie back and enjoy it - there's a reason for the cliches (in fact lying back AFTER is recommended practice to allow the sperm your press-ups have just generated time to make the rest of their commute).
Your body is essentially a fire-extinguisher: first build up the pressure, then expel the 'foam' (sperm), then job done, nothing left, discard the empty (you). Just as well nature builds in auto-recharge, or girls would be ditching us after one date...
Basically, you're normal - learn to use what you have, and enjoy it.
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