I havnt had sex since sept2013 ,but lately i keep having issues with pain &orgasmic feeling down there .when i wipe myself i see tiny silvergray like particles on tissue paper ,,,it feel like bubbles coming from vagina&my clitoris seem to have gotten smaller ,i thought i was going thru menopause a few mnths back ,but not sure,my coworker said they think im post menopausel now,im confused,please help