Hi Everyone,
Me and my boyfriend we are both almost 18 (in about 4 to 5 months) are going to and ready to have sexual intercourse for the first time soon and I was just wondering is there anything I can do to give him the most pleasurable time possible as we are both virgins!???
Also we both live at home with our parents so where would be some good places that are reasonably private to have sex in?
I have been with him 17 and a half months, and we are both each others first sexual partner. He has only ever had one other girl friend and they only ever kissed.
Any advice or tips for our first time would be great!
Much regards, p.s we have two forms of contraception... :-D
Me and my boyfriend we are both almost 18 (in about 4 to 5 months) are going to and ready to have sexual intercourse for the first time soon and I was just wondering is there anything I can do to give him the most pleasurable time possible as we are both virgins!???
Also we both live at home with our parents so where would be some good places that are reasonably private to have sex in?
I have been with him 17 and a half months, and we are both each others first sexual partner. He has only ever had one other girl friend and they only ever kissed.
Any advice or tips for our first time would be great!
Much regards, p.s we have two forms of contraception... :-D
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I'm sure both of you have weighed the pro's and con's of this action already so lets not get into that. 18 months is a long time and I applaud both of you for that.
To make it more pleasurable, make sure he knows that there is no pressure. Sometimes guys have an inablilty to perform if there is too much pressure to do well.
For the place, is there any time that you know for a fact that nobody is going to be at home (both parents/nearby relatives that stop by are at work or on a day trip out of town). I made sure that they were atleast 45 minutes away. This may not be possible for you, but if is it might want to give that a shot. For the first time, it is probably best that you are at home or a place both of you are comfortable.
You have two forms of conception? I think you mean two forms of anti-conception. ;-)
To make it more pleasurable, make sure he knows that there is no pressure. Sometimes guys have an inablilty to perform if there is too much pressure to do well.
For the place, is there any time that you know for a fact that nobody is going to be at home (both parents/nearby relatives that stop by are at work or on a day trip out of town). I made sure that they were atleast 45 minutes away. This may not be possible for you, but if is it might want to give that a shot. For the first time, it is probably best that you are at home or a place both of you are comfortable.
You have two forms of conception? I think you mean two forms of anti-conception. ;-)
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Well make sure he is not pressured at all about this
because us guys get pressured about sex in like grade 7 by other virgins.....
and make sure neither of you are stressed. when stressed you will not be able to have an orgasm(in most cases(for girls)) pick a house whos parents/relitives/freinds wont be bothering you for atleast 20 minutes...its your first time it wont be that special never iis
if you wanna be "differnt" from everyone elses first time
dont do it on a couch or bed do it in an a shower or something(more pleasurable but still need protection)
because us guys get pressured about sex in like grade 7 by other virgins.....
and make sure neither of you are stressed. when stressed you will not be able to have an orgasm(in most cases(for girls)) pick a house whos parents/relitives/freinds wont be bothering you for atleast 20 minutes...its your first time it wont be that special never iis
if you wanna be "differnt" from everyone elses first time
dont do it on a couch or bed do it in an a shower or something(more pleasurable but still need protection)
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Hi everyone,
Thanks so much for the replies, yes I did mean two forms of contraception lol not conception! Yeah we have waited a fair while 18 months and have weighed the pros and cons and also discussed it with my parents.
We can do it at my place I guess, and there is no stress on either him or myself, thank you for your help, all your ideas are welcome! :-)
Thanks so much for the replies, yes I did mean two forms of contraception lol not conception! Yeah we have waited a fair while 18 months and have weighed the pros and cons and also discussed it with my parents.
We can do it at my place I guess, and there is no stress on either him or myself, thank you for your help, all your ideas are welcome! :-)
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Thank you I am sure we will, we have waited for what feels like forever sometimes but we did it for good reasons! We both wanted to be ready, comfortable and have thought seriously about what responsibilities this meant for us as a couple.. first before we decided to have sex!
:-) Have a good time too!
:-) Have a good time too!
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Nice, we have been together since we were 16.5 yrs old so yeah we wanted to be older and to realise the responsibilities etc... and also we wanted sex because we love each other not because we want to loose our virginity or "get laid" hahaha.. so yeah this is how it has is for us :-) I would never complain about how things have turned out, because it feels right that we've have waited and all.
Anyone care to share how old they were when they lost their virginity?
Anyone care to share how old they were when they lost their virginity?
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ya ^///^ she was 9........i forgot her name
jessica or something it wasent like planned lol we were watching a horror movie n saw 2 people doing it n they liked it so we tried it but she was hurting so we stoped hehe
jessica or something it wasent like planned lol we were watching a horror movie n saw 2 people doing it n they liked it so we tried it but she was hurting so we stoped hehe
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Wow, thats kind of cute really... I guess it didn't really feel like much because you were so young am I right?
Me and my boyfriend are planning on have our first time at sex tonight and we're almost 18 :-) I'm not sure whether to be excited or slightly nervous lol!
Me and my boyfriend are planning on have our first time at sex tonight and we're almost 18 :-) I'm not sure whether to be excited or slightly nervous lol!
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yeah didnt feel all that so hearing people talk bout how great it was never really maade sense 2 me lol
n i knowz i been taalkinh 2 u this whole time on this fourm lol
when u both climax try 2 keep going k? n dont rush into a bunch of postions
n i knowz i been taalkinh 2 u this whole time on this fourm lol
when u both climax try 2 keep going k? n dont rush into a bunch of postions
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Haha I've enjoyed having someone to talk to about this to be honest with you.. I mean its kinda awkward talking about sex to an adult but yeah this way is ok..
Yeah we have 1 and a half hours to have sex tonight before anyone comes home so we won't be rushing and I think we are just going to start off in missionary and give that a try.. cause it might be too painful after a while!
:-) wish us luck hahaha to say the least! Any other tips?
Yeah we have 1 and a half hours to have sex tonight before anyone comes home so we won't be rushing and I think we are just going to start off in missionary and give that a try.. cause it might be too painful after a while!
:-) wish us luck hahaha to say the least! Any other tips?
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well stick to the basics hun....foreplay...intercourse...oral
but if u wanna spice it up a bit
u can do doggy style(might hurt tehehe)
and for oral would be 69ing whitch is u give him a blowjob while he eats u out
hehe ^Y^
n dont get dehydrated lol
but if u wanna spice it up a bit
u can do doggy style(might hurt tehehe)
and for oral would be 69ing whitch is u give him a blowjob while he eats u out
hehe ^Y^
n dont get dehydrated lol
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