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My boyfriend and I are not ready to get married yet, and so we have been intimate without him putting himself inside of me. I've noticed that a lot of times before we get busy, he'll go to the bathroom. Does that have any significance? Why is he doing that? And also, I'm not really sure what precum is, but after reading other posts, I've assumed that it's the small amount of discharge from the man before he really ejaculates. I have given my boyfriend oral sex, but not up until the point of ejaculation. Did I still swallow sperm by swallowing his precum? And also- can precum get me pregnant if he puts his penis in the opening of my vagina, but he doesn't go in?

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is he circumcised or not?
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Whether he is circumcised or not doesn't matter...

To answer your questions:

1. It's good to use the bathroom before sex. You cannot really become 'aroused' when you have to go to the bathroom. If you do have to go to the bathroom it may be painful or uncomfortable when having sex.

2. Precum (or pre-ejaculate) is what comes out of the penis when a man starts becoming aroused. The amount of fluid depends on the man. There can be sperm in precum which is why people tell you that the "pull out method" doesnt really work- because sperm can be going inside of you before he even comes. So yes, you may have swallowed sperm. No big deal. It's good for you!

3. Precum CAN get you pregnant if there is sperm in it (no way to know)... And yeah him putting his penis at the opening of your vagina is an easy enough way for the sperm to get in. Even if he doesn't go in.
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