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ok so this is my second time having sex with my boyfrined but every time we do it hurts so bad till he cant even go all the way in or push in from hurting but he always cum but i dont because i be in so much pain. and after were done i feel so bad i mean till the point i ll be almost crying because i dont understand why it keeps hurting can some one explain to me why does this keeps going on

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do you guys have sex all the time ?
if you have sex like once in awhile, it will hurt all the time when he first puts it in.
it's because your vagina gets tight again after having sex, so when he puts it in your vagina again its gonna hurt.
when he puts it all the way in, your vagina then gets loose then it will start to feel good and stop hurting.

but if you guys do have sex all the time, like everyday. then that's bad if your hurting.
i think you should go see a doctor.
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sorry, my bad. i didn't read correctly, i didn't know this was your second time having sex.

so when did you first have sex with your boyfriend ?
if it was a long time ago, then of course having sex for the second time with your boyfriend is gonna be painful.
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thats ok. june 1. yes it has been a while. oh ok. we dont have sex all the time i think he be trying to push it all the way in but so it will start to feel good but i cant take the pain it just hurt to much.
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yea that's how i was too, when you don't have sex for a long time it will hurt the next time you do it.
when you start to have sex more, the pain will start to go away. if you don't feel comfortable, then tell your bf to stop.
it's not good to force it all the way in to fast. something could tear, & you can bleed.
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i know because i have bleeding the 1st time and now the second time just a lil spotting but it stops bout two days and i notice a lil cut below my vagina i think thats part of the pain the 1st i had it and now for the second time it look like it split back open but it always healed up
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Just want to agree with you here. Sex should be pleasurable to both partners. If you feel pain or discomfort than you should stop. Try to find a solution to a problem.

Do you use any lubrication ever?
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oh, i see. well if you're concerned, and really in pain whenever you guys have sex. i think you should go see your doctor.
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thanks dark red no but the condom we used said lubrication.
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melanie84 thanks i will
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your welcome.
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