So, I'm sure everyone's annoyed by the amount of young girls complaining about hypertrophied labias, but I can assure you that my case won't bore you.
Here's the prob: I've had the hypertrophy for as long as I can remember, and I never thought anything of it until becoming sexually educated. I honestly think labial hypertrophy is a fake diagnosis and that everyone's different, but that doesn't mean it's not abnormal to a lot of people. Even though everyone's different and a lot of girls have the hypertrophy situation, people still get grossed out when their partner has it. And as much as you can try to tell someone that it's normal and everyone's different and labia size is like breast size, sometimes you're big and sometimes you're small...there are still those who find it unnattractive. Not an difficult thing to fathom, in my opinion.
Girls with this condition are always paranoid that men will be grossed out. And then they go and ask the men, and a lot of them are like, "No, it's cool, I like the buritto in my girlfriend's pants." Well, yeah, great, but I'm not exactly going for men. So what happens when a girl sees the hypertrophy? I honestly wouldn't blame her for being all, "ew."
So what am I supposed to do? I guess you could say, "Well, if you're both in love with eachother than it shouldn't matter and she should accept you for who you are!" Well, yeah, but...I'm fifteen. I've got nothing going for me in terms of a hot body or sexual prowess. I'm just kind of...trying to figure things out. And as a student in high school, I highly doubt my first time will be all special and sweet and a consummation of extreme love. More like on a couch all screwed up, especially since it will be no-strings-attached. So in that type of scenario, the possibility of someone getting COMPLETELY turned off by the disgusting and discolored hypertrophy farm is definite.
Now what? This situation is probably unfixable, but any advice at all would be appreciated. And let's just keep the irrelevant "Embrace yourself for who you are!" and "If she doesn't like it, it's her problem, not yours!" out, because the whole reason why I typed all of the above is to show why that won't work.
Here's the prob: I've had the hypertrophy for as long as I can remember, and I never thought anything of it until becoming sexually educated. I honestly think labial hypertrophy is a fake diagnosis and that everyone's different, but that doesn't mean it's not abnormal to a lot of people. Even though everyone's different and a lot of girls have the hypertrophy situation, people still get grossed out when their partner has it. And as much as you can try to tell someone that it's normal and everyone's different and labia size is like breast size, sometimes you're big and sometimes you're small...there are still those who find it unnattractive. Not an difficult thing to fathom, in my opinion.
Girls with this condition are always paranoid that men will be grossed out. And then they go and ask the men, and a lot of them are like, "No, it's cool, I like the buritto in my girlfriend's pants." Well, yeah, great, but I'm not exactly going for men. So what happens when a girl sees the hypertrophy? I honestly wouldn't blame her for being all, "ew."
So what am I supposed to do? I guess you could say, "Well, if you're both in love with eachother than it shouldn't matter and she should accept you for who you are!" Well, yeah, but...I'm fifteen. I've got nothing going for me in terms of a hot body or sexual prowess. I'm just kind of...trying to figure things out. And as a student in high school, I highly doubt my first time will be all special and sweet and a consummation of extreme love. More like on a couch all screwed up, especially since it will be no-strings-attached. So in that type of scenario, the possibility of someone getting COMPLETELY turned off by the disgusting and discolored hypertrophy farm is definite.
Now what? This situation is probably unfixable, but any advice at all would be appreciated. And let's just keep the irrelevant "Embrace yourself for who you are!" and "If she doesn't like it, it's her problem, not yours!" out, because the whole reason why I typed all of the above is to show why that won't work.
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The greatest pleasure in life is to accept yourself for what you are. The second greatest pleasure in life is for others to accept you for what you are. Focus your attention only on those who accept you for what you are. Ignore those who don't. Let true love finds you, not the other way around.
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