I had an elongated foreskin and hypersensitivity to the glans. Due to this I made the decision to get myself circumcised rather than continue to desensitize myself (I had been working on for a year , but progress was too slow) I got circumcised in November 2016 and it has been one year since. I am now 20 years of age and I’m faced with the challenge not knowing wether I’m fully desensitized yet or also not knowing how a regular penis should function. My condition is that before circumcision that exposing my glands even to drips of water would be painful. After my circumcision I’m able to bathe with it out and it doesn’t hurt as it did.  My girlfriend is ready to have sex and I’m not sure if I’m able to. When I masturbate with lubricant after a while the head seems to get too sensitive and I’m not able to touch it although it has been some time since my circumcision. When my girlfriend gives me blowjobs, it does not pain me but neither do I feel that much pleasure from it. The only way I could think of describing the pains as if one ejaculated and the penis gland would be stimulated. Hurt!! Could it also be that my hands are too course? (People have told me my hands a really smooth). I’m not sure if this is normal.