Super sensitive glans after adult circumcision and retracted penis

I had my circumcision about 10 months ago.

I was in hospital for another minor op then after op when I wanted to urinate the nurses refused me a bottle for nearly 4 hours and when a nurse did give me a urinal bottle I could no longer urinate due to my bladder stretching.

The urologist comes around and organizes a SPC through the stomach and then says for me to have a circumcision as if I don't I'll get penis cancer. This happened hours after my first minor op.

I have the circumcision and then my penis gets retracted so far back that its no longer seen. They call it hidden or retracted penis.

The surgeon days after the op says not to worry and the new model will pop back out. 10 months on and its still retracted and the pain is quite nasty at times.

I can't ever have an erection due to this tight feeling at the head of the penis which feels like something trying to get out of the head of the penis and the pain is pure hell.

I've tried warm water. I get a bucket and tried Epsom salts, dermaveen soap free wash and bath with that to no avail. I get fissures around the groin that bleed every few weeks to a few months. Had CT, Outrasound and MRI's that don't show anything.

Seen three different urologists and they all say its because I am to over weight yet before the op my penis was out like everyone else. When the op doesn't go the surgeons way he blasts me for being over weight and tells me I should see a shrink in some pretty nasty emails he sent to me as after the op I decided to email and asked why it was done and since then he got nasty and refuses to see me so I saw 2 other urologists that just happen to be his friends as I later discovered and all saying the same thing.

The dr said I had a phismosis. I google this and find that in 87% of cases its cured by steroid cream so I asked the dr why they didn't try that and then that is when he lost the plot.

Anyway 10 months on and I am still in agony. Tried warm water and everything I can think of to no avail. Bit hard to pull the foreskin back when its retracked so far back along with the penis which causes great pressure pain at times. The burning itch is bad enough but not to ever have an erection again is driving me up the wall. Can't have sex either. Lost the girlfriend because of all this.

I saw a general surgeon who did another op and he says there are ops to build up the muscle to lift the penis back out but when I mentioned that to the third urologist he says no I must lose more weight.

Anyone else been through this and did they get out of it please ?