Hi I'm twelve almost thirteen and I am really over weight. I am 5"11 and weigh 225 I know that it sounds like a lot but I guess I don't look as bad as you think I can fit into small sizes I just have hips and a muffin top and really thick thighs. I eat nothing but healthy stuff and I swim on the high school team even though I am in 7th grade and play basketball and go right back into swimming. I always have a sport going on I never take a break but I'm still big. My mom just tells me that I will grow and thin out and that I just have to keep doing what I am doing but she has said the same thing for three years and I'm sick of it because I am almost six feet and still fat. My friends don't really care but every time I feel to fat to hang out with them. Plus I won't let myself like a guy because I know they will never like me as long as I look like I do. I am recently in a full leg cast and on crutches from a knee injury four months ago and I am so sick of it cause I WILL NEVER make myself through up or starve myself but I don't know what else I can do.