I am 19 and have a full sex life with my boyfriend of 2 years. I know my boyfriend is extremely good at providing and that he is not the problem. But I cannot have an orgasium during sex and never had. I am able to orgasium but only by arousing my clit and I dont feel anything from any other area of my vagina including the inside, so sex simply isnt satisfying and I dont really have much of a sex drive left which doesnt help my relationship. By the way, me and my boyfriend have a 3 monthly checkup so I am STI/STD clean, and this isnt a recent problem it is an issue I have always had. I would appreciate any help you can give me.
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i have the same problem.i can have AMAZING orgasims only from my clit too.
i do get pleasure from sex i just never get orgasims.i dont know how long you
have to have sex to have an orgasim buuuut my boyfriend doesnt last the longest
if you catch my drift.i mean he doesnt go like a super short time or anything
but i mean i dont really know how long you have to have sex to have an
orgasim
i do get pleasure from sex i just never get orgasims.i dont know how long you
have to have sex to have an orgasim buuuut my boyfriend doesnt last the longest
if you catch my drift.i mean he doesnt go like a super short time or anything
but i mean i dont really know how long you have to have sex to have an
orgasim
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Both of you sound pretty normal to me. Not all women get orgasms from vaginal sex. My wife doesn't. I always had to get her there during foreplay or using my fingers while I was inside her. That was a little tricky because her clit is completely hidden. Sometimes I THOUGHT I could feel a little grain of sand under the skin but I've never been sure that is really her clit. Every time I think I've found it and I'm rubbung away, she grabs my finger and moves it over a half inch or so. Plus I didn't last that long either once I got inside.
So it's just something you have to work out between the two of you to make things work well. I was able to give her multiple orgasms with a little practice and we even worked out coming together while I was inside her.
Practice, practice, practice.
So it's just something you have to work out between the two of you to make things work well. I was able to give her multiple orgasms with a little practice and we even worked out coming together while I was inside her.
Practice, practice, practice.
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I just keep rubbing her clit area as long as she keeps coming.
You just have to figure out what works for you.
You girls are so lucky. I'm almost 70 now and my little guy has been killed off by blood pressure pills and heart disease. She still gets several orgasms, sometimes. Sometimes it just doesn't work at all. I can usually masturbate myself to an orgasm even though it won't stand up. But she can't do it for me due to the arthritis in her fingers. She doesn't like anything inside her vagina any more so i can't even stick my finger in.
So do it like crazy while you're young and it still works.
You just have to figure out what works for you.
You girls are so lucky. I'm almost 70 now and my little guy has been killed off by blood pressure pills and heart disease. She still gets several orgasms, sometimes. Sometimes it just doesn't work at all. I can usually masturbate myself to an orgasm even though it won't stand up. But she can't do it for me due to the arthritis in her fingers. She doesn't like anything inside her vagina any more so i can't even stick my finger in.
So do it like crazy while you're young and it still works.
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