Everyone meet HFG! He says lovely things about me to other people and ALWAYS agrees with me! I think he could be Bosley on our show!!!! ;-) XD
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Hi everyone! Sorry I have not been on here much.. Just have a lot going on right now...
Dawn... Just to let you know that I wrote the letter to Dr. IceMan for tomorrow, printed it all out, spell checked it and its ready to go! I read it to my husband and my grandmother (who is going in the room with me this time) and they said I was nice but firm. I did not slander him in anyway shape or form, however I did tell him about his lack of listening skills and compassion for his patients and maybe he should treat his patients as though they were his mother, wife or children. Hummm, maybe I'll hit a nerve with him and he'll realize how rude is truly is! I can say I feel so much better after writing it.. but I'm not looking forward to seeing him... I hope this will be the FINAL visit! I hope you are feeling alright? How is the weather there in Canada? Cold? Ha ha.. burrrrrr, its nice and sunny outside today, in the 80's... no complaints here..... I'm feeling alright... You know I won't have a BM for a couple of days still but when I do, watch out, I go about 6 times or more and I think I lost more weight... My butt is too small for a bike right now, unless its a kids size.. LOL I still feel something swollen down there but who knows? Its probably my butt coming out... Nah, it may just be the tissue being swollen from healing? I hope its not a skin tag? Oh gosh, having a 3rd surgery, makes me want to puke thinking about it! My kids started their new school yesterday, I feel bad I am not there with them but I'm going to go see them tomorrow after IceMan, my hubby will be driving thank goodness.. I'll just recline and enjoy the ride.... We will have a long road trip but my little girls b-day is Thurs. so we wanted to go to her new school and pass out treats and drinks for her new classmates and meet her teacher... so she's excited about that... I have not packed a thing since they've been gone Sunday.. I have NO energy... I know its because I don't eat much but when I do, I feel blah... I just want to lay down all the time.... Well hugs to you and I hope you are ok? ;-)
Wendy, I have not read up a lot on whats been going on but I did come across what you've been through lately with your family... I am so sorry for everything... I am praying for all of you! I hope you are healing ok also? I know you have a lot going on right now but keep me updated when you get a chance.... I go and see my mean Dr. tomorrow for my hopefully FINAL visit... If I'm not healed in the next 4 weeks, I'll go see another surgeon as a second opinion after my husband starts his job, we'll have immediate insurance again.. thank you LORD! :-D I can then go see the surgeon in the other state we are moving too.. they have a lot of good surgeons there too.... I want the best now! Compassion, compassion, and more compassion... otherwise forget it!!! >:( Ok, well lots of hugs to you too and keep your chin up high.... You are a strong lady, so I know you will be fine... I wish I lived nextstore to help you out in anyway shape or form... .... Can you imagine, you and I struggling to walk with our butts in pain and helping out the other people who need help when they are sick? Oh my, what a site... :$ Hugs to you hon...
DR.. Calling Dr. Red.... Where are you? Don't you love me no more? Sheesh, I thought we had something here... Ha ha ha ha ;-) You are my buddy... I hope everything is going alright with you too... I'll keep you all updated on my status... Yes after 3 months later after my first surgery... I'm still on here chatting with you all.... Hugs to you...
Health fit guy? Where are you? You are my long lost buddy? Miss you..... :'(
Dawn... Just to let you know that I wrote the letter to Dr. IceMan for tomorrow, printed it all out, spell checked it and its ready to go! I read it to my husband and my grandmother (who is going in the room with me this time) and they said I was nice but firm. I did not slander him in anyway shape or form, however I did tell him about his lack of listening skills and compassion for his patients and maybe he should treat his patients as though they were his mother, wife or children. Hummm, maybe I'll hit a nerve with him and he'll realize how rude is truly is! I can say I feel so much better after writing it.. but I'm not looking forward to seeing him... I hope this will be the FINAL visit! I hope you are feeling alright? How is the weather there in Canada? Cold? Ha ha.. burrrrrr, its nice and sunny outside today, in the 80's... no complaints here..... I'm feeling alright... You know I won't have a BM for a couple of days still but when I do, watch out, I go about 6 times or more and I think I lost more weight... My butt is too small for a bike right now, unless its a kids size.. LOL I still feel something swollen down there but who knows? Its probably my butt coming out... Nah, it may just be the tissue being swollen from healing? I hope its not a skin tag? Oh gosh, having a 3rd surgery, makes me want to puke thinking about it! My kids started their new school yesterday, I feel bad I am not there with them but I'm going to go see them tomorrow after IceMan, my hubby will be driving thank goodness.. I'll just recline and enjoy the ride.... We will have a long road trip but my little girls b-day is Thurs. so we wanted to go to her new school and pass out treats and drinks for her new classmates and meet her teacher... so she's excited about that... I have not packed a thing since they've been gone Sunday.. I have NO energy... I know its because I don't eat much but when I do, I feel blah... I just want to lay down all the time.... Well hugs to you and I hope you are ok? ;-)
Wendy, I have not read up a lot on whats been going on but I did come across what you've been through lately with your family... I am so sorry for everything... I am praying for all of you! I hope you are healing ok also? I know you have a lot going on right now but keep me updated when you get a chance.... I go and see my mean Dr. tomorrow for my hopefully FINAL visit... If I'm not healed in the next 4 weeks, I'll go see another surgeon as a second opinion after my husband starts his job, we'll have immediate insurance again.. thank you LORD! :-D I can then go see the surgeon in the other state we are moving too.. they have a lot of good surgeons there too.... I want the best now! Compassion, compassion, and more compassion... otherwise forget it!!! >:( Ok, well lots of hugs to you too and keep your chin up high.... You are a strong lady, so I know you will be fine... I wish I lived nextstore to help you out in anyway shape or form... .... Can you imagine, you and I struggling to walk with our butts in pain and helping out the other people who need help when they are sick? Oh my, what a site... :$ Hugs to you hon...
DR.. Calling Dr. Red.... Where are you? Don't you love me no more? Sheesh, I thought we had something here... Ha ha ha ha ;-) You are my buddy... I hope everything is going alright with you too... I'll keep you all updated on my status... Yes after 3 months later after my first surgery... I'm still on here chatting with you all.... Hugs to you...
Health fit guy? Where are you? You are my long lost buddy? Miss you..... :'(
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How can you ask that, of course I love you, I just didn't want to tell it in front of everybody :$ :$ :$ . But if it is the way you want it, here I love you 3lk as a good friend of mine. :-) o.O :-D :-) (If I don't put this "as a good friend of mine", your husband might be jealous)
Well it has been a long time since we first started to talk and I am very glad that you are still here, talking to all of us. I said it numerous times before and I will say it again. Sharing experiences and knowledge is very important not only for us but for everybody out there. People need to know that they are not alone and that there is someone that they can talk to.
I'm glad that you wrote that letter and that you will give it to him. Be strong. He is there because of you, and he should realize that. He can not be rude to his patients.
Give us an info when this is over.
And congratulate your daughter her birthday. :-)
Well it has been a long time since we first started to talk and I am very glad that you are still here, talking to all of us. I said it numerous times before and I will say it again. Sharing experiences and knowledge is very important not only for us but for everybody out there. People need to know that they are not alone and that there is someone that they can talk to.
I'm glad that you wrote that letter and that you will give it to him. Be strong. He is there because of you, and he should realize that. He can not be rude to his patients.
Give us an info when this is over.
And congratulate your daughter her birthday. :-)
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Well I think I need some love too!!!! :$ :'( :$ ;-) I mean I invited you all into my club and all!!! ;-)
Hope everyone is good and well!
Hope everyone is good and well!
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Hehe :-) We love you too bambi. :-) :$ :-)
To be honest if there was no sympathy here I think this group would end it's posting long time ago, but as all can see we are still here talking to each other. :-)
P.S. Where is Wendy?
To be honest if there was no sympathy here I think this group would end it's posting long time ago, but as all can see we are still here talking to each other. :-)
P.S. Where is Wendy?
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I'm here, I'm here! Don't worry, I haven't left you. I've just been taking care of my friend. He has been getting better slowly. He says it still feels like pushing out broken glass but his doctor says he's recovered much more quickly than normal. I'm still tired of cooking for his tired butt though. Does anyone know of some good meals I can prepare that help keep stool soft? I've been avoiding cheese and rice and foods like that which harden the stool....
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Hi HFG! Make anything with Omega 3 oils in it, such as salmon, cook with olive oil! Lots of veg, but he has to drink lots of water, so there isn't too much fiber! IF he like Dutch Black Licorice this is one of the best stomach stimulants and laxatives around! Cabbage soup is a good one and FILLED with vitamins! They use it for cleansing diets, but it still has a TONNE of good stuff in it! It can actually who am I kidding it DOES give lots of gas! Which can be very painful for people who are recovering! Just keep it simple and fresh! Get him to take Acidopholus and Omega oils in capsule form! This REALLY eases up everything!
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Hello My cyberspace buddies!
Health fitness Guy,
bless your heart for taking care of your friend ! If it helps, I'll tell you what I ate. Mashed potatoes (with a little shredded cheese at times), soft boiled eggs, fish, yogurt with blueberries, oatmeal. You could try sweet potatoes. If he's taking a laxative, I would serve a small amount of veggies, but not real gassy ones.
To tell you the truth, I wish I would have known about Veganique that you can buy at GNC stores before I had my surgery. Bambi had told us about Vega, but I wasn't buying online at the time and so I found Veganique instead. They're similiar products and it has helped me soooo much. I'm REGULAR for the first time since I can remember and my stools are SOFT because I drink alot of water too. I mix it with yogurt, milk, banana and if I have blueberries or other fresh fruit, I throw that in as well. I'm so full (start out with a FORTH of the dose recommended and build up) that I don't eat much else. I'm also taking vitimain B complex, inositol and choline. I started walking and have now worked up to boxing on the WII and the other day I was able to help my hubby load and unload equip into our big truck.
Tell your friend that we say to hang in there, it will get better, especially since the doc said he's doing well.
Bambi,
If you read above, you'll see I'm doing much better. Thank you dear, for all your support! My stool wasn't runny, only soft. Like I said above, I wish I would have been on Veganique the whole time! I'm doing so well, I don't know if I want to go back, but if I do, I will be much stronger than I was going into this last one. I just had too much done at once!
My daughter is doing well and next Wednes will hopefully be released to start playing Volleyball. She starts school this Monday.
I brought my dog in (by the way, she's CUTE!) and after her vaccine, she swelled up like a pumpkin and I had to bring her to the Emergency room. Can you believe it? SHEESE!
Anyways, everyone is doing great now and I got to see my son for breakfast today too!
By the way, my surgeon would cut the tags, not rope them. I believe you're probably correct about the roping being less painfull, but I love this compassionate doctor and want her to do the procedure (if I get it done), so it will need to be whatever way she wants to do it. I just hope I can count on you to complain to! :D
I saw Sawyer today on a lost episode and thought of your pillow! :D
Lisa,
Hi hun! Happy to hear your moving things along with the move and also that you wrote "the" letter. More people should do that! It's also great to hear your kiddos started school and I think bringing treats to your girls classmates for her b-day sounds like a great way for her to start her year!
Are you still bleeding? I'm so happy to hear that you will have insurance and I definetly say Praise GOD! He is so good to us! Keep us posted on your health and your last vistit with this doc.
Dr. Red,
You're right about this support group. The support I received on this site was a dose of good medicine. Right up there with the Percs! :D I honestly don't know what I would have done without all of my cyberspace buddies!
Thank you, my friends............Hugs, Wendy
Health fitness Guy,
bless your heart for taking care of your friend ! If it helps, I'll tell you what I ate. Mashed potatoes (with a little shredded cheese at times), soft boiled eggs, fish, yogurt with blueberries, oatmeal. You could try sweet potatoes. If he's taking a laxative, I would serve a small amount of veggies, but not real gassy ones.
To tell you the truth, I wish I would have known about Veganique that you can buy at GNC stores before I had my surgery. Bambi had told us about Vega, but I wasn't buying online at the time and so I found Veganique instead. They're similiar products and it has helped me soooo much. I'm REGULAR for the first time since I can remember and my stools are SOFT because I drink alot of water too. I mix it with yogurt, milk, banana and if I have blueberries or other fresh fruit, I throw that in as well. I'm so full (start out with a FORTH of the dose recommended and build up) that I don't eat much else. I'm also taking vitimain B complex, inositol and choline. I started walking and have now worked up to boxing on the WII and the other day I was able to help my hubby load and unload equip into our big truck.
Tell your friend that we say to hang in there, it will get better, especially since the doc said he's doing well.
Bambi,
If you read above, you'll see I'm doing much better. Thank you dear, for all your support! My stool wasn't runny, only soft. Like I said above, I wish I would have been on Veganique the whole time! I'm doing so well, I don't know if I want to go back, but if I do, I will be much stronger than I was going into this last one. I just had too much done at once!
My daughter is doing well and next Wednes will hopefully be released to start playing Volleyball. She starts school this Monday.
I brought my dog in (by the way, she's CUTE!) and after her vaccine, she swelled up like a pumpkin and I had to bring her to the Emergency room. Can you believe it? SHEESE!
Anyways, everyone is doing great now and I got to see my son for breakfast today too!
By the way, my surgeon would cut the tags, not rope them. I believe you're probably correct about the roping being less painfull, but I love this compassionate doctor and want her to do the procedure (if I get it done), so it will need to be whatever way she wants to do it. I just hope I can count on you to complain to! :D
I saw Sawyer today on a lost episode and thought of your pillow! :D
Lisa,
Hi hun! Happy to hear your moving things along with the move and also that you wrote "the" letter. More people should do that! It's also great to hear your kiddos started school and I think bringing treats to your girls classmates for her b-day sounds like a great way for her to start her year!
Are you still bleeding? I'm so happy to hear that you will have insurance and I definetly say Praise GOD! He is so good to us! Keep us posted on your health and your last vistit with this doc.
Dr. Red,
You're right about this support group. The support I received on this site was a dose of good medicine. Right up there with the Percs! :D I honestly don't know what I would have done without all of my cyberspace buddies!
Thank you, my friends............Hugs, Wendy
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HI Wendy,
Well first I started to read and was who is this Guest that knows us all?! Then in the end of your post I see that this is you Wendy. You weren't logged in. It got me confused a little bit.
Good that you are feeling better and better.
Lisa how are you now? Are you all packed? Be strong Lisa and everything will be fine.
Well first I started to read and was who is this Guest that knows us all?! Then in the end of your post I see that this is you Wendy. You weren't logged in. It got me confused a little bit.
Good that you are feeling better and better.
Lisa how are you now? Are you all packed? Be strong Lisa and everything will be fine.
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Hi Wendy! Glad whatever you are taking works! It sounds the same kind of thing! Actually I'm thinking of giving some to my dad - if he can tolerate it! As he is having problems in that department!
I want to apologize for something to you all! I shouldn't have put the link up for the drink! It was against policy! I had my knuckles tapped today, so I'm a bit sensitive about it!! My intention wasn't to push this on anyone or MAKE you guys buy it, it was it just helped me SO much OK?
When I was asked to become a supporter, I was really proud of that, due to the fact that SO much stuff has happened to either myself or my loved ones! So I try and find as much information as possible for you guys and others that I talk too! I NEVER thought about pushing anyone to buy something OK? Just wanted to make things a little better thats all!
I have an infection in my head right now!! :'( So I'm overly emotional about being told off!! I hope I didn't offend any of you with it!
I will leave you all with saying! I wish you ALL HEALTH, Happiness and the BEST Recovery Possible! God bless! Sincerely Dawn
I want to apologize for something to you all! I shouldn't have put the link up for the drink! It was against policy! I had my knuckles tapped today, so I'm a bit sensitive about it!! My intention wasn't to push this on anyone or MAKE you guys buy it, it was it just helped me SO much OK?
When I was asked to become a supporter, I was really proud of that, due to the fact that SO much stuff has happened to either myself or my loved ones! So I try and find as much information as possible for you guys and others that I talk too! I NEVER thought about pushing anyone to buy something OK? Just wanted to make things a little better thats all!
I have an infection in my head right now!! :'( So I'm overly emotional about being told off!! I hope I didn't offend any of you with it!
I will leave you all with saying! I wish you ALL HEALTH, Happiness and the BEST Recovery Possible! God bless! Sincerely Dawn
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Bambi, you didn't offend me at all!!!!!!! I think you are amazing and wonderful. It was a simple mistake that came out of the goodness of your heart!!!! The stuff I bought, I NEVER would have known about, had you NOT told me! It IS almost the same, you're correct. I tell everyone that I found this stuff because of you! I have introduced it to my mom, dad, sister, best friends; my husband takes it with me and I'm starting my vegetarian daughter on it as well. So I say THANK YOU, THANK YOU AND THANK YOU!!!!
You have an infection? I'm so sorry to hear that! Did they put you on antibiotics or what are they doing for you? I'm so sorry you're going through this!
Please don't be sad, you need to try to stay positive for your health! I will be praying for you, sweetie.
Cyberspace hugs being sent your way, Wendy
You have an infection? I'm so sorry to hear that! Did they put you on antibiotics or what are they doing for you? I'm so sorry you're going through this!
Please don't be sad, you need to try to stay positive for your health! I will be praying for you, sweetie.
Cyberspace hugs being sent your way, Wendy
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Thanks honey! It was a BAD day yesterday in EVERY way! So when you get a "tap" it's like "OK!!!! That's it!!!! I can't take one more thing!!!" I'm sure you all understand that right!?
I didn't know about the rule, and it's weird since I always add links - to back up my SUPERB expertese!!!! ;-) XD - It is amazing just how many ads or on these and everyone trying to sell something! I'm pretty sure I can't cut and paste! But anyways, just a little touchy that's all! I can't help it! I try but I've aLWAYS been like this - unfortunately!
Anyways! I been having a heck of a time in "our" department lately! I can't afford Vega right now - I know it's worth it, but BOY!!! - so that is probably why! I am a maid of honor - hate saying matron makes me sound too old ;-) - at my oldest friends wedding on Saturday and I feel like a bloated whale!!! I've taken my Omega 3's etc. But still nadda! I think I might try the Senocet! Any advise peoples?
You sound SO much happier Wendy! Things sound like they are really moving forward for you! That is wonderful!
I suppose our Lisa is in the process of moving - didn't she see the "Cold One" this week?! There was a post on the main page regarding the treatment someone had by a special Thyroid surgeon, this person just let him have it!! It was AWESOME!!!
The doctor that gave me so many percocet - 300 a month and couldn't care less, was reported by several other people to the CMA - Canadian Medical Association! Actually as I'm typing this, there was 5 robberies yesterday at local pharmacies for Oxycontin! THAT's how bad this drug is!
Anyways, got to go over to my dads he's not very well! We are in the sandwich generation aren't we? Taking care of the kids, then our parents! No wonder we need hair dye!!! ;-) XD
Thanks for the support - your a sweetheart, hugs back to ya!
Dawn
I didn't know about the rule, and it's weird since I always add links - to back up my SUPERB expertese!!!! ;-) XD - It is amazing just how many ads or on these and everyone trying to sell something! I'm pretty sure I can't cut and paste! But anyways, just a little touchy that's all! I can't help it! I try but I've aLWAYS been like this - unfortunately!
Anyways! I been having a heck of a time in "our" department lately! I can't afford Vega right now - I know it's worth it, but BOY!!! - so that is probably why! I am a maid of honor - hate saying matron makes me sound too old ;-) - at my oldest friends wedding on Saturday and I feel like a bloated whale!!! I've taken my Omega 3's etc. But still nadda! I think I might try the Senocet! Any advise peoples?
You sound SO much happier Wendy! Things sound like they are really moving forward for you! That is wonderful!
I suppose our Lisa is in the process of moving - didn't she see the "Cold One" this week?! There was a post on the main page regarding the treatment someone had by a special Thyroid surgeon, this person just let him have it!! It was AWESOME!!!
The doctor that gave me so many percocet - 300 a month and couldn't care less, was reported by several other people to the CMA - Canadian Medical Association! Actually as I'm typing this, there was 5 robberies yesterday at local pharmacies for Oxycontin! THAT's how bad this drug is!
Anyways, got to go over to my dads he's not very well! We are in the sandwich generation aren't we? Taking care of the kids, then our parents! No wonder we need hair dye!!! ;-) XD
Thanks for the support - your a sweetheart, hugs back to ya!
Dawn
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Hi Bambi, glad to hear your sense of humor is back! So you're going to be a bridesmaid? Well, the only advice I can give you on being bloated is that if you can't afford the Vega right now, go for fiber, fiber and more fibor. Fill up on low cal, fiber rich foods, LOTS of water and go for walks. Take a liquid B complex with TONS of B-12 for energy. Cut back on the water intake (still drink a healthy amount though) about three days before the wedding. Stop eating before 6:00 pm and get plenty of sleep. If you are white, get some Jergens tanning moisurizer and slather away! That's the best advice I have. Oh, and as you know, careful with carbhoydrates and sugar.
When's the wedding?
I read about Oxycontin. All it really is, is a sustained oxycodone. It releases over, I think, twelve hours. This way, people don't go all night without painkillers in them and can use plain oxycodone for breakthrough pain. You can stay ahead of the pain this way. Drug addicts like to cut this and snort it, which is really bad for them. Scientists are currently working on a new Oxycontin pain pill that, if cut, will null and void the narcotic effect. If they can replace the current Oxycontins for these new Oxycontins, it will be much less pleasing to the drug addict. I'm not sure when this will happen, but hopefully soon.
I'm stronger than I was, but I'm still fighting for every bit of strength I get. My muscles and joints are very sore and I still tire easily. I'm just taking it one day at a time. Sometimes, like today, I get really frustrated. I just have to rest when I need it, and push myself when I have the energy to do so.
Thanks for caring, my friend! :-D
Hugs, Wendy
Lisa? WHere r you, are you feeling better? How did your lil girls b-day party go?
When's the wedding?
I read about Oxycontin. All it really is, is a sustained oxycodone. It releases over, I think, twelve hours. This way, people don't go all night without painkillers in them and can use plain oxycodone for breakthrough pain. You can stay ahead of the pain this way. Drug addicts like to cut this and snort it, which is really bad for them. Scientists are currently working on a new Oxycontin pain pill that, if cut, will null and void the narcotic effect. If they can replace the current Oxycontins for these new Oxycontins, it will be much less pleasing to the drug addict. I'm not sure when this will happen, but hopefully soon.
I'm stronger than I was, but I'm still fighting for every bit of strength I get. My muscles and joints are very sore and I still tire easily. I'm just taking it one day at a time. Sometimes, like today, I get really frustrated. I just have to rest when I need it, and push myself when I have the energy to do so.
Thanks for caring, my friend! :-D
Hugs, Wendy
Lisa? WHere r you, are you feeling better? How did your lil girls b-day party go?
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That's funny! I have the Jergens Tanner - because of the skin cancer I can't Fakenbaken!!! SUCKS!!!! It's on Saturday! I've been friends with her for over 31 years!!!!! Unreal heh? I haven't even bought a dress yet!!!! I feel like a beached whale!! It's been one heck of a month! My incision is still IFFY I have a new hairstyle, but where he made the incision it has killed some hair follicles so right where my bangs are there is a part and THERE is my incision, I don't know how I'm going to cover it! I've been using Bio Oil it worked fantastic for my other incision, but this ones different! I keep walking around looking like this o.O Trying not to get that big wrinkle inbetween your eyebrows!!!!! I think the wedding pictures will turn out just great!!!!! LOL!!! ;-)
I bought her a Ruby Set for her wedding day!!! I sell jewelery and crystals, so I thought it would be nice for her to have something special! The only thing is I will have to wear Rubies too and I don't look good in red!!!! Shows off my hot flashes too much!!! :$ ;-) XD But she's 3 months older so she'll be redder!!!LOL I just took Omegas, Evening Primose, Green Tea, CLS, Biotin etc. I tell ya, I will SLIP into anything and OFF of anything right now!!!! LOL I just want a good cupboard cleaning without pain if you know what I mean! I have to get my EYEBROW waxed and my blonde ;-) eyelashes dyed!!! Then we are going for manicures and pedicures on Friday!!!!!! I know it sounds nice but I am SO stressed about it!!! I'm not used to doing things for myself like that!!! And I haven't bought new clothes in years!!!! REALLY my kids are better dressed than we are!! My eldest wears all the name brands and I have a pair of pants for winter and a skirt for summer - not even kidding!!! Why do we do that? It's funny when I write it down and throw it out into the universe of the internet I'm thinking "RU insane?!!" But it's true, then when I see people who dress better than their children I'm disgusted it isn't right is it!!!? I still have a Rubbermaid bin filled with my 20 year old clothes - torn jeans, snake skin stilletoes, bustier etc!!! - and all I think is "One day I'll be back in those" Even all my Rhinestone jewellery is in there and my lace black gloves!!! LOL So I should get on that right now as it is back in style! ;-)
Anyway I feel and am acting like a whiner right now - you can tell I'm in a bad place can't you? So I will get off of here and do some exercise or something constructive! Hope to hear from you soon Lisa!! Best to everyone! Dawn
I bought her a Ruby Set for her wedding day!!! I sell jewelery and crystals, so I thought it would be nice for her to have something special! The only thing is I will have to wear Rubies too and I don't look good in red!!!! Shows off my hot flashes too much!!! :$ ;-) XD But she's 3 months older so she'll be redder!!!LOL I just took Omegas, Evening Primose, Green Tea, CLS, Biotin etc. I tell ya, I will SLIP into anything and OFF of anything right now!!!! LOL I just want a good cupboard cleaning without pain if you know what I mean! I have to get my EYEBROW waxed and my blonde ;-) eyelashes dyed!!! Then we are going for manicures and pedicures on Friday!!!!!! I know it sounds nice but I am SO stressed about it!!! I'm not used to doing things for myself like that!!! And I haven't bought new clothes in years!!!! REALLY my kids are better dressed than we are!! My eldest wears all the name brands and I have a pair of pants for winter and a skirt for summer - not even kidding!!! Why do we do that? It's funny when I write it down and throw it out into the universe of the internet I'm thinking "RU insane?!!" But it's true, then when I see people who dress better than their children I'm disgusted it isn't right is it!!!? I still have a Rubbermaid bin filled with my 20 year old clothes - torn jeans, snake skin stilletoes, bustier etc!!! - and all I think is "One day I'll be back in those" Even all my Rhinestone jewellery is in there and my lace black gloves!!! LOL So I should get on that right now as it is back in style! ;-)
Anyway I feel and am acting like a whiner right now - you can tell I'm in a bad place can't you? So I will get off of here and do some exercise or something constructive! Hope to hear from you soon Lisa!! Best to everyone! Dawn
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Hi everyone! I sure miss talking with my sweeties!
Ok, first of all... Dawn!!! You have NEVER offended me an any which way or form.... I realize that their are rules to go by but really I know you were just trying to help me and Wendy and other people out... I truly know that! I still want to buy that product or the generic but just don't have the extra cash right now... but I want you to know.. I really appreciate everything you have done for me!!! I'm sorry you were having a bad day... And Ooohh lala... in a Wedding huh? You'll be the hottest one there! ;-) You mentioned senekot right? Ugh, I can't take that stuff.. It makes my poor stomach cramp sooooo badly... but when I'm desparate, I take it... Unfortunantly, I did not go up until the fith day which was Monday and I bled again with clots... I take my stool softners but something is not right with my GI system since my first surgery... I'm nauseated all the time and I barely eat at all... I try, really I do.. but I have no appetite.. I'm starting to look "hagerdy" as my husband tells me when I lose weight.. I am almost at my highschool weight.. can you believe that one? I have 3 kids and I'm almost 40 years old... My little 12 year old neice came over a couple of weeks ago, to give my 10 year old some clothes and the jeans and shorts fit me! I kept them! LOL... We are still packing away.... I thought we'd be moving this Sat. but we are going to do it next Sat. so I'll still have my computer until then! Hugs to you :-D
Wow... I've missed a lot on here haven't I? Wendy? Sweet Wendy... I know you have bad days and I'm sorry about that... I do pray for you and Dawn and DR all the time.... I still am not the same since my surgery.. It gets so depressing.. I try to sit (yes just sit down) yesterday and pack up all the kids toys and I was having severe pain down there just by sitting.. I still have no energy.. I think its because I don't eat much... But I have faith that we will heal from this... wish it was sooner than later though... :-( Hugs to you :-D
Ok, to let you all know.. about "Dr. Iceman".... Ok, I went into his office with my grandmother this time right... I think he knew something was up... My grandma asked him "why is she still in pain" and he just replies" she's still healing from 2 surgeries".... He examines me and sees no more damage (thats a good thing)! And said that I am the 2% of people who has this much complications from this surgery... Yes that 2% had to be me right? And so when he was finished, I gave him the 2 1/2 page letter I wrote and he opened it up and read it in front of me... Uuuhhhh Awkward! He then proceeded to tell me that he was truly sorry I felt this way all along... I told him, he's always in a big hurry and I never can talk to him, so I wrote a letter.. He said he appreciated my honesty and held my hand then hugged me... I just told him that he needs to have more compassion for his patients because we put all our trust and faith in him and we need him for support! I told him that I know my body and I know my pain and my pain is real... He needs to LISTEN more... he again apologized... I was very proud of myself for being honest with him and standing up for myself (which I normally don't do)... He then puts the letter in my chart and I said "Oh, are you going to say that I'm a psyc patient now".. he laughed and said No of course not! He wants to see me in another 6-8 weeks but I don't know if I should go back to him or not.. I mean I'll be living in a different state... why does he want to see me again? He says I'm still healing but nothing seems to be out of the ordinary... If I'm still uncomfortable, I may just go to another rectal surgeon.... But I did it! So thank you for encouraging me to do this to get it off my chest and to be honest... I feel so much better about the entire situation... I told him exactly how I felt too... I said I felt you were agitated to do a second surgery on me and I went from there.. I did not slander him and I told him I appreciate his experience and knowledge but he just needs to have more compassion... so maybe I will help the "next guy out" and he'll be more tender and listen to his patients...
Ok, gals and boys...Dr. Red.... I can't sit much longer, so I'm going to go for now.... I hope you all are doing ok? And Healthfitguy... hello to you and I'll pray for your friend as well.... We truly know what type of pain your friend is going through... Hugs to you too.. XD
Oh, about my youngest b-day.. it was so adorable.. all the kindergarden kids sang to her and my hubby and I passed out treats and drinks... we also met my son's teacher and then the next day we met my oldest daughters teacher... Big classrooms... my kids are used to a private Christian school with only like 8 kids in the room.. now they have like 30.... Huge transformation for them... My younger two are doing better with meeting friends than my oldest.. Its really tough on her.. Living in a different state from her mommy and daddy, not having any friends, going to a public school.... its just a lot of stress... but I know God will get us through all of this...
Ok, Hugs to you all... and lots of Love... I will keep you posted on whats going on here... I always love hearing from all of you as well.... ;-) :-D
Ok, first of all... Dawn!!! You have NEVER offended me an any which way or form.... I realize that their are rules to go by but really I know you were just trying to help me and Wendy and other people out... I truly know that! I still want to buy that product or the generic but just don't have the extra cash right now... but I want you to know.. I really appreciate everything you have done for me!!! I'm sorry you were having a bad day... And Ooohh lala... in a Wedding huh? You'll be the hottest one there! ;-) You mentioned senekot right? Ugh, I can't take that stuff.. It makes my poor stomach cramp sooooo badly... but when I'm desparate, I take it... Unfortunantly, I did not go up until the fith day which was Monday and I bled again with clots... I take my stool softners but something is not right with my GI system since my first surgery... I'm nauseated all the time and I barely eat at all... I try, really I do.. but I have no appetite.. I'm starting to look "hagerdy" as my husband tells me when I lose weight.. I am almost at my highschool weight.. can you believe that one? I have 3 kids and I'm almost 40 years old... My little 12 year old neice came over a couple of weeks ago, to give my 10 year old some clothes and the jeans and shorts fit me! I kept them! LOL... We are still packing away.... I thought we'd be moving this Sat. but we are going to do it next Sat. so I'll still have my computer until then! Hugs to you :-D
Wow... I've missed a lot on here haven't I? Wendy? Sweet Wendy... I know you have bad days and I'm sorry about that... I do pray for you and Dawn and DR all the time.... I still am not the same since my surgery.. It gets so depressing.. I try to sit (yes just sit down) yesterday and pack up all the kids toys and I was having severe pain down there just by sitting.. I still have no energy.. I think its because I don't eat much... But I have faith that we will heal from this... wish it was sooner than later though... :-( Hugs to you :-D
Ok, to let you all know.. about "Dr. Iceman".... Ok, I went into his office with my grandmother this time right... I think he knew something was up... My grandma asked him "why is she still in pain" and he just replies" she's still healing from 2 surgeries".... He examines me and sees no more damage (thats a good thing)! And said that I am the 2% of people who has this much complications from this surgery... Yes that 2% had to be me right? And so when he was finished, I gave him the 2 1/2 page letter I wrote and he opened it up and read it in front of me... Uuuhhhh Awkward! He then proceeded to tell me that he was truly sorry I felt this way all along... I told him, he's always in a big hurry and I never can talk to him, so I wrote a letter.. He said he appreciated my honesty and held my hand then hugged me... I just told him that he needs to have more compassion for his patients because we put all our trust and faith in him and we need him for support! I told him that I know my body and I know my pain and my pain is real... He needs to LISTEN more... he again apologized... I was very proud of myself for being honest with him and standing up for myself (which I normally don't do)... He then puts the letter in my chart and I said "Oh, are you going to say that I'm a psyc patient now".. he laughed and said No of course not! He wants to see me in another 6-8 weeks but I don't know if I should go back to him or not.. I mean I'll be living in a different state... why does he want to see me again? He says I'm still healing but nothing seems to be out of the ordinary... If I'm still uncomfortable, I may just go to another rectal surgeon.... But I did it! So thank you for encouraging me to do this to get it off my chest and to be honest... I feel so much better about the entire situation... I told him exactly how I felt too... I said I felt you were agitated to do a second surgery on me and I went from there.. I did not slander him and I told him I appreciate his experience and knowledge but he just needs to have more compassion... so maybe I will help the "next guy out" and he'll be more tender and listen to his patients...
Ok, gals and boys...Dr. Red.... I can't sit much longer, so I'm going to go for now.... I hope you all are doing ok? And Healthfitguy... hello to you and I'll pray for your friend as well.... We truly know what type of pain your friend is going through... Hugs to you too.. XD
Oh, about my youngest b-day.. it was so adorable.. all the kindergarden kids sang to her and my hubby and I passed out treats and drinks... we also met my son's teacher and then the next day we met my oldest daughters teacher... Big classrooms... my kids are used to a private Christian school with only like 8 kids in the room.. now they have like 30.... Huge transformation for them... My younger two are doing better with meeting friends than my oldest.. Its really tough on her.. Living in a different state from her mommy and daddy, not having any friends, going to a public school.... its just a lot of stress... but I know God will get us through all of this...
Ok, Hugs to you all... and lots of Love... I will keep you posted on whats going on here... I always love hearing from all of you as well.... ;-) :-D
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