Hey everyone I just joined and plan to post on here pretty frequently I guess. I know this is an annoying question as it pops up alot, so I am sorry but I am really depressed over this matter.
I frequently get made fun of because I'm barely 5 feet tall, maybe 5'1. I look like I'm 11-12 years old so I don't have many friends due to my odd appearance... Even my sisters make fun of me so it's constant. Anyway no big deal, I'm not a whiny b***h about it but this question has been in my head since I was 12 because I saw all of my friends shoot up in height, do stuff with their girlfriends, and even talk about it and I'll just be like "yeah, i know right" or "uh huh".
Let me fill you in, so as I was saying I'm barely 5 feet tall, I look like I am 11-12, my penis is literally only 2 in. erect, I have no armit hair, barely any pubes. I know you will say ohhh you started already! Well maybe that's the case but in reality compared to 99% of everyone else I haevnt'. I know this won't really help me but I need to vent I guess so any input would be great.
Thanks everyone.
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Hi Alone,
First, stop comparing yourself to others. We all develop differently and at different rates and times. You are NORMAL.
We don't usually become concerned if you've started developing by 15. You're close but you do seem to have started. Your penis can grow into your early 20's. It's not uncommon for a male to not have pit hair until 16 or so. Some guys just aren't very hairy either. You're probably getting very close to a growth spurt.
Hang in there, feel free to vent. You are NORMAL.
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Thanks for the feedback. I know I shouldn't compare myself but when 99% of everyone I know is heavily matured especially compared to me, I get my doubts and sadness.
Again thanks :)
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Hey there Alone..... Im sorry to hear about what you are going through...... how old are you? how tall are your parents? I was a late bloomer and know what you are going through and how you feel....
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I'm 14, 15 in May. My dad is 5'10'-5'11 and my mom is 5'6. My sisters are also short and I'm 5 ft. tall. Thank for the reply much appreciated :)
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Oh, and may I add I smoked weed very often for a year but stopped and haven't done so in over a month because I figured it was delaying my growth.
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Well your height does not surprise me at all based on your parents shorter stature and your level of development (stage of puberty). have you talked to your parents at all about your height or about when they started puberty. I know it feels like everyone else is going through puberty and "developing normally" it sucks to feel that way and it seems like things will never catch up. im here to tell you they will. its not the most helpfull right now but as you go through puberty things will catch up
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My dad said he didn't go through puberty or get taller until e was in 10th grade, 15-16 years old. The doctor said I should be 5'11 but I see nothing as of right now.
Yea it does suck, but thanks for replying.
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see you still have a good 1-3 years to devlope you may start earlier but don't worry if you don't you will get there man
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Hi Alone
First thing I would like to say that you should be proud of yourself for stopping smoking weed and I hope you are able to stay away from it.
Being the kid that gets picked on is very frustrating for sure, when you get it at school and at home it can be overwhelming for sure. You seem to be handling things well and venting and talking about it will help.
If it starts to get to you talking with your school councillor may help you get through the tough times.
If you have a friend or two that don’t make fun of you because you’re a little smaller, they are the ones to hangout with a true friend accepts you the way you are.
As far as the growing you know the routine it will happen and you have a few years of growth ahead of you. The challenge is accepting ourselves the way we are, which is very hard since so many others seem to have a problem with you being small.
A little bit of growing can make such a difference for you, for the jerks that make fun of you there is no cure for stupidity and they may never get past it.
You don’t need to be 6.4 with eight inches to be successful, 5.4 with 4 inches is just fine and you just need to accept yourself and try too not compare yourself to others.
What we achieve in life is not based on our height or penis size.
Good luck and stay strong.
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Thanks for writing to me. I am home schooled because I was too nervous about being picked on in highschool because I'm small... But I have an apointment with a doctor on Monday so that will help me. Now that you said I should find a few friends that like me for me, that made me realize that the few friends I do have make fun of me for being short, so thanks for that advice. I knoq it's just a factor it all has to do with my confidence and whatnot. Again, thanks for taking the time to help me out.
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I hope your visit to the doctor will help you sort things out I don’t know if much can be done for these things but the doctor can give you the answers.
If you feel that you would benefit from talking with a social worker to help you deal with things your doctor could set it up for you.
I hope your homeschooling has made the school year easier for you.
If the friends you have are good ones maybe you could talk to them about how much it hurts when they make fun of you.
I can relate to one of the things that you are going through and know how much it hurts when the parts are not the same as the others. One day in gym I thanked a guy for noticing my small one but told him it made me uncomfortable he was checking me out. It was kind of nice to get back at him a bit but it didn’t change anything.
There seem to be many kids on here dealing with the same sort of thing you are. Knowing you’re not the only one that goes through this c**p from people that think its okay to make fun of others can help some also.
Finding effective ways to deal with our problems and knowing others care and that it is okay to ask for help and being open and honest about what is troubling us, are all steps in the right direction and will help you get through the tough times.
I hope this helps you some and anytime you need to vent or just need some understanding and support either post or message me and I would be happy to try and help.
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Hey, just a quick update I guess.
So I finally got my mom to take me to a pediatrician concerning my growth. I'm 5'2 and 87 pounds. I am considered below average in height, and way below average in weight which is a bummer. My doctor told me I am a definite late bloomer and I should expect puberty or a growth spurt until I am 15-17 years old. I was also told my penis is below average (i asked him when my mom wasn't in the room...).
He wants me to get bloodwork done later this week too see if I can get a growth hormone to help me grow. I was put on Calcium and Vitamin D supplements (or a diet consisting of them) so it worked out pretty well, other than the fact that i am still a midget compared to everybody else. Oh well... waste of 200$ in my opinion but glad I went it...
Thanks for reading this have a good day/night.
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Hey glad to hear you went to the doctor, good to get things checked out just to be safe.
You all ready knew about the late bloomer and below average size thing but the tests will determine if a growth hormone is needed. It may not seem like it at times but being healthy and just a little smaller is not so bad.
Try not to be so hard on yourself at the moment you may be a little shorter and smaller than you want but things can change.
The measure of a man is not determined by his height or size of his penis.
When you get in a relationship being shorter or having a smaller penis won’t matter you can have wonderful and fulfilling relationships just the way you are.
You can achieve great things and your success is not predetermined by your size.
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Update: I got an inch or two taller, gained 10 lbs, but still no penis growth. Funny to see how upset I was lol..
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