I'm just curious, I've been straight all my life but until puberty I've had gay thoughts. When I was masturbating I usually masturbate about girls however I once though guys and felt a bit more aroused. I still love women however, and check them out. In real life I've check guys out before but never gotten turned on off of it. I only get turned on of "imagery gay sex", which gets me more aroused than "imagery straight sex". I still love women, I'm in the 9th grade and only date girls. I tried to "like a man" but I couldn't it's just not me. I don't know if Im gay, or is this a stage of life everyone deals with. I don't mind gays, but myself I don't want to be gay. It's a personal choice, like you may like green over purple or vice versa.
I'm in the 9th grade.
Any suggestions will help. I know I asked this before, but I think I've offered more detail this time.
I'm in the 9th grade.
Any suggestions will help. I know I asked this before, but I think I've offered more detail this time.
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It's interesting that you say "I've loved women all my life", as if at grade 9, you've lived a full life.
All kidding asside, you're still forming your preferences and your sexual identity is not set in stone yet.
Many people have changing feelings for one gender or the other during these years. It can be influenced by everything from the people you see daily, to what movies you watch, what hormones are hitting right now, to what you had to drink on your date, to what successes and failures you had on your last date.
In short, you're still learning what you like.
It's possible you're straight.
It's possible that you're gay.
It's possible that you bi-sexual.
It's possible that you don't know yet... and may not know for many years yet.
Don't worry. It's not unusual to feel confused or conflicted about what you are, what you like, who you are, or who you would like to be.
It's understandable that you may choose not to express your gay side (we ALL have a combination of both sexes and genders in us), and that's OK too. You may also feel that you haven't met the right person to show that side to. Maybe later... maybe never.
Relax. Don't worry.
If this is troubling you a great deal, you can try speaking with a counselor at school or outside of school.
But don't think that all your choices have been made by 9th grade, OK?
Good luck!
All kidding asside, you're still forming your preferences and your sexual identity is not set in stone yet.
Many people have changing feelings for one gender or the other during these years. It can be influenced by everything from the people you see daily, to what movies you watch, what hormones are hitting right now, to what you had to drink on your date, to what successes and failures you had on your last date.
In short, you're still learning what you like.
It's possible you're straight.
It's possible that you're gay.
It's possible that you bi-sexual.
It's possible that you don't know yet... and may not know for many years yet.
Don't worry. It's not unusual to feel confused or conflicted about what you are, what you like, who you are, or who you would like to be.
It's understandable that you may choose not to express your gay side (we ALL have a combination of both sexes and genders in us), and that's OK too. You may also feel that you haven't met the right person to show that side to. Maybe later... maybe never.
Relax. Don't worry.
If this is troubling you a great deal, you can try speaking with a counselor at school or outside of school.
But don't think that all your choices have been made by 9th grade, OK?
Good luck!
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Just think about this.....would you take it in the butt. No then you're not gay. Yes then maybe your bi.
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All Gay men do not have anal sex. That's like saying if you do it doggie style your straight. What men do in private is not always what you think. Some men stay with only oral sex.
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