Arousal when withholding urine

hey i want to know why this happens please

is it dangerous or what ?

I am 76 years old and have just experienced this. I have rarely had an organum although I have experienced stimulation. I wish this had happened earlier in life.

Wow... What made you experiencing this? It would be interesting to find out. As for the rest, better late than never.

Yes, I guess it is a common thing to do.

My wife loves to have sex in the morning when she has it almost full down there. Her orgasm is real fast and strong. A pressure on her abdomen drives her crazy. I too find it pleasurable feeling full and having sex...

It's good to hold your pee at school because the restrooms are gross!

I also started as a teenager, I started having problems with it in my 20s, and now that I’m in my 30s, I have to empty my bladder with a catheter. Please stop, if you want to feel even better just buy a vibrator or something. I absolutely regret it :(

UNDISCUSSED ASPECTS. I am 78 year old male. The confusing messages of, sex or pee, can have serious consequences. Many men think they want sex from their wife when they awake in the morning, when all they really want, is to pee. Unless the couple realize what is happening here, this can lead to resentment and long-term damage to the marriage. But how often do we read about intoxicated men, or groups of men, who commit rape with violence without realizing that the message their body is giving them is, 'you need to urinate'. If this message had been instilled in them as teenagers then perhaps the scales would have been tipped in favour of a cognitive decision and many lives would have been saved. It is said:" If you save one life you save the world". It's 3AM, and I have already waited too long.
Yaakov

This has been an enlightening thread on a fascinating subject.

From camaraderie and support to genuine medical issues and concerns to addiction and indulging in fantasy and fetish. It seems we all have our own experiences of this phenomenon. Peegasm, as someone named it, is what your mind and body make of it. Our thoughts shape our reality. Our behaviors are a reflection of those thoughts.

If you believe that what you are experiencing is enjoyable, healthy, and normal, it is.

If you are experiencing your darkest days, know that it will get better, and sooner if you believe in yourself, do the work, and find support. Change is possible.

If you experience pain, listen to your body. Talk to a doctor, a parent, or someone you trust.

Get familiar with your anatomy. I’m sure there are videos on YouTube that explain the reproductive and urinary system. I highly recommend watching Pleasure on Netflix.

If you feel out of control, talk to a therapist, social worker, or counselor.

Try something else that makes you feel good, walk outside barefoot, listen to music, dance!

It’s the hormones released in our brain that allow us to feel everything! The same chemicals that make us feel pleasure are released during exercise. Strive for balance.

Now, this last comment before mine surprised me.

Yaakov’s first theory is that arousal from withheld urination could lead to marital issues if not communicated.

I agree and add that this is true regardless of sex. It seems like anyone with a bladder could experience this sensation, but not everyone does.

Honest and respectful communication as well as boundary setting are essential for any healthy relationship and for a fulfilling sex life.

Yaakov’s second theory is that arousal from withheld urination could be a contributing factor in some cases of sexual assault, especially as it relates to society’s rejection (or taboo) of the phenomenon.

A logical conclusion could be made that education about arousal from withheld urination at an appropriate age could lead to greater self acceptance, social acceptance, healthier relationships, and lower cases of sexual assault.

If there’s any truth to it, it’s morally imperative that it is made public knowledge. I prefer a channel of decentralized education for these topics for this day & age.

Social acceptance comes from self acceptance. Ultimately, it is up to each individual person to find it within themself to accept who they are and what brings them pleasure.

Good luck everyone.

CG

I understand this, I find it incredibly exciting and erotic to do this too

BEEN DOING IT SINCE ABOUT 5 YEARS OLD

I have been doing it for about 8 years now. But I like to go on step further blocking my pre hole so I can hold it much longer.Then feeling becomes much more intense

I never masturbated and I didn't even know what sexual arousal was. I had the same feeling and felt good while holding it. I even pee my pants couple of times. Is this bad?

not holding it so long intentional sleeping