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Hello, I just wanted to say that I am a mom that went through the same as your daughter. My mom didn't understand either. She didn't know how to support me. I went through post partum with all my pregnancies but going through the guilt of what I put my baby through and leaning on my mother who had no idea of what I was going through caused me to relapse. She got custody of my oldest who was 7 at the time and Lyla, the baby who I'm talking about, was 3 months. I was alone and everyone was surprised that I survived. Lyla didn't like to be held. She didn't like clothes or anything to confining. She was born 5 pounds 12 oz but she was a really good eater. She was born 2 weeks early. My mother and I had to massage her muscles because they would spasm. Now she 13. I see her every day. She's my middle child but still treated like she's a princess. Her birthday was the day of the eclipse. That told me that she is a very special little girl. She is in advance classes in school. She gets straight A's and she says that she works hard to be a perfect child, which she is! My oldest daughter has a lot of resentments still bc I left my kids with my mom to get better. But Lyla doesn't know what happened and since that information would only bring her pain me and my mom will never tell her and my oldest promised not to either. Me and my mom has went through a lot but our relationship is now much better. My advice to you is to please have patience with your daughter too. Don't go and try to understand why she did what she did because you never will. Encourage her to get into counseling and stay with it. Church also helps me a lot. Maybe you can go to church with her. Stay positive. The afflictions that that baby has might not even be because she was on methadone. The baby just might be colic. All your daughter needs is love and support and the more she has the faster she will get better. It took me 10 years of sobriety to handle what life throws at me without stumbling because I didn't have much of that stuff, love and support. My mom did the best that she could but because she didn't understand it was hard for her to do that. So don't concentrate on the things that you can't understand concentrate on that baby and your daughter's well-being. Things will get better. All it takes is time.
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Thats actually NOT TRUE people have died from methadone withdrawal depending on dosage. Google it if you dont believe me
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