Bad and Strange thoughts during pregnancy

123flower wrote:

011202 wrote:

Shann0330 wrote:

I think I already posted this, but am new to this site.  Sorry if it's a repost.  I am desperate right now. I am struggling with this tremendously right now. If you are still an active member and there is anyway for us to get in touch about how you dealt with this situation, I'd greatly appreciate it. I hope you were able to overcome this. Thank you so much!

Can I ask how you are coping with this now? Any info would be great as I am also struggling with this. The thoughts do disappear for awhile but then have a tendency to come back unexpectedly. I am struggling immensely with this at the moment.

if you want *Warning! Do not post your e mail address!* and i will tell you a bit more there

Hi, for some reason I can't view your previous message properly. I am just wondering if there is any advise you can give me that could help me at the moment.
I am now 25 weeks pregnant and all of my bad thoughts are still with me. It is preventing me from enjoying any part of my pregnancy.

I just have to say this blog has helped me tremendously, there is no possible way this baby could be anyone but my husbands but for some reason I can't seem to get this awful thought out my head and its ruining my day! I had been drinking and partying a lot before I got pregnant (this was not planned) and I couldn't exactly remember everything, even the times my husband and I had sex. I've shared my weird feelings with him and he reassures me he is the father and also reminds me of the night we conceived. Yoga has helped my mind to bring in peace. Every baby I see, the bad thoughts start flowing...will my baby look like my husband??! And I remind myself of course it will!! I can't tell you all how much it helped me reading these entries, that's why I decided to share - so thank you!! And let's all keep bringing in peace of mind and knowing and believing these babies are in fact our husbands!!

I am so glad I found this - I'm 9 months pregnant and have had the same thoughts all the way through my pregnancy. The baby is 100% my husbands but I have worried all the way through that the baby will come out and somehow not be his. I was worried that I was going completely mad but it's good to know that I'm not the only one who has felt like this. I just hope that when the baby arrives in the next few days that this disappears and does not affect what should be a really happy time. 

sjoh, this is interesting haha, i had it really bad, the same feeling, also, i know i did not cheat and obviously know if i had done something like this, but for the first three months, i was a OKAY, and then, it started, it never went away, my baby girl was born, looks just like her dad, she is a year old now, and i fear of getting pregnant again, bea i am afraid of this feeling haunting me again during a second pregnancy, it was awful.and i can just imagine feeling like this when getting pregnant again, i just don't know how, i keep saying to myself it is not possible, and try to think positive, but just short after, same again

is there still anyone on this site that i can talk to about these feelings because i am really struggling with terrible thoughts that i have cheated when i know that i have not and its completely ruining my pregnancy . i just need to know that i am not alone and that other women have felt like this too . if im not the only one i wont feel s crazy .please can someone reply .
im only 18 weeks pregnant and im s frightened this is only going to get worse .

Hello I know this post is over a year old but if you are still on this site or recied this reply please could you write back an update on how this ended for you or did it get better further in pregnancy because I am suffering with exactly the same thought and it's driving me insane !!! Please somone reply !!!!

Omg I'm 19 weeks pregnant & dealing with this same thing, it's driving me crazy!!! I'm so thankful that somebody else feels the same way!

is there anyone n this post anymore ?
im 19 weeks preganant and am really suffering with these thoughts . can someone reply please .

Hi im in the same situation as yourself and everyone else on this page, glad you have posted recently. Feel like im going crazy lol. Think i might talk to the doctor next time i go but scared of the way they will judge my thinking. Its my first time pregnate and had no idea my thoughts would think this way. Hate the way its making me feel

It's insane what I'm thinking and I actually don't know I I have stated to persuade mysel that it's true ! I have started picturing me sleeping with another man and now I question wether it's my imagination or a memory. . :(

Im putting it down to the pregnacy hormones.. we would never think this way if we werent pregnate and for us to feel this guilty and obsess over something we havent even done just goes to show we would never do such a thing in the first place. I know how you feel. I feel like talking to my partner but dont want him getting the wrong impression and believing its true as anyone would because we arnt thinking clearly.. just want this to pass as i believe it should soon

How did you recover from this?

I am 20 weeks pregnant and have been having the same feelings. I am not married and was quite flirty and promiscuous prior to my pregnancy. I was dating someone when we got pregnant and I should have every reason to think that this baby is his. I tracked my text messages, what I did, my work schedule, attempted to track my sex schedule, pictures or posts I may have created just to rule it out. I even took it as far as asking "potential guys" if I slept with them. Which of course, were all a big fat NO. I thought for sure these feelings would go away then. Surprise, Surprise, they are back. Its eating me alive, I am not enjoying my pregnancy. Every time I think about our baby girl (which is a ton), I immediately think "the babies not his". Huge fear, huge worry, huge problem. I have no clue how to make it go away or how to ease my mind. I have high anxiety to begin with, let alone the hormones we have during pregnancy. I just want to let it go and move on...but why cant I?

I made an appointment with my midwife for tomorrow to tell her. I am worried about this anxiety becoming something way worse and maybe just maybe, she can help ease my mind.

Anyone find any solutions?

I m new of this site. 2day my thought is very bad. i m thinking if i kill myself then what will be happen. i m 6 months pregnant. i feel very bad. why this thought come in my mind.

I am 24 weeks pregnant and I have had these saw thoughts since May! I am not enjoying my pregnancy at all and I have been to my doctors but was told 'pills aren't good for you during pregnancy' I know it's stupid what I am thinking and when I talk about it it is laughable but you really can't help what you think