HI I WANTED TO KNOW IF THE REMOVAL OF THE BARTHONIAL GLAND CAN CAUSE DRYNESS AND DOES IT HAVE TO BE INFLAMED FOR A PERSON TO HAVE THE SURGERY AND ALSO CAN A PERSON REQUEST FOR IT OR DOES THE DOCTOR SUGGEST? I GET THEM ABOUT THREE TO 4 TIMES A YEAR AND THE DOCTOR JUST CUT ME TO DRAIN IT BUT WILL NOT GRANT SURGERY UPON MY REQUEST BECAUSE HE SAYS THE SIDE EFFECT WILL BE DRYNESS. IS THAT TRUE? ALL THE CUTTING ONCE IT HEALS HAS MADE IT UNCOMFORTABLE FOR MY HUSBAND AND MY SEX LIFE. IAM TIRED OF THE CUTTING. I HAVE BEEN GOING THROUGH THIS FOR 9 YEARS NOW :'(