do i really have to open my legs in order for my bf to go in n break my hymen...he came but he said that he pulled out on time the thing is idk if he went in at all or if he pulled out on time...my legs were closed but he was still inside my labia...it hurt a bit so i pulled away...i went to the r.r and i have brown spots..what does that mean? help please help I'm scared!