ok right im 15 and like when i put soming down it need to be "right" like i need to keep moving or like 1 mm to the left and right till i think its right or a like thing in my head gots AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA :-S :-S :-S :-S >;) >;) AAAAAARRRRRRRRRR like it has to be moved till its right
and like when i walk into my living roon i move like the candels and like costers on the table untill they are right..i can help it
and at school if i put a pen down i need to move it just a little bit till its right
but its not others stuff like at school i dont care about otherpoples stuff or if im at someones house i dont need to do it at all
why is this? and why do i do it(becuse i have no clue)?will it ever stop>?
and like when i walk into my living roon i move like the candels and like costers on the table untill they are right..i can help it
and at school if i put a pen down i need to move it just a little bit till its right
but its not others stuff like at school i dont care about otherpoples stuff or if im at someones house i dont need to do it at all
why is this? and why do i do it(becuse i have no clue)?will it ever stop>?
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It's call OCD - Obsessive Compulsive Disorder! MANY people have this disorder - some sceintists beleive it is from a disconnection in our brains! Some people will wash their hands a hundred times or more a day, some touch something constantly, or in your case setting everything right! It's only a problem IF it's a problem - does that make sense? A very dear friend of mine - for over 30 years - has OCD! She has ALWAYS been EXTREMELY tidy, NO dust at all, if there is a stain it will be gone instantly! She has ALL of her containers in her cupboards facing forward with heights in a row and all the labels alphabetized! It is what makes her feel happy and content! WE ALL know that, so that is jus the way she is! So to her it's not a problem - it can for the people around her - due to her high standerds of being clean! Several years ago, she and her husband went to work, and while they were at work someone broke into their house and stole EVERYTHING! So the police came over and just before she notice a LITTLE bit of dust where the stereo WAS! She went to get the vacuum - and that was stolen too!!! The police did fingerprint tests and her house was SO clean there was nothing for them to go on!!!! That is how unreal she is about it! Also she gave me a baby shower and made ALL the food herself, and while my other girlfriends were eating using a coaster with a napkin on hit - to catch any bits - she actually took the napking away WHILE they were eating! It drove her NUTS that these crumbs MIGHT just drop on the floor!
So sorry for rambling, but my point is - IF you keeping things straight and even etc, - IF that isn't a problem for others then it's NOT a problem! IF you were making people miserable and yourself miserable by it then it is and needs to be dealt with! Keeping things straight and tidy is FAR better then some poor people who wash their hands raw, pull out their hair, disinfect constantly etc.
Also you and I have discussed several issues about your life and because you are so young I think that you might have a bit of anxiety or depression - this WOULD go hand in hand with you keeping things straight - to have some control in your life! There are MANY teenagers who are stressed and become worriers and you are showing CLASSIC signs of anxiety and stress! Worrying about things that aren't in your control! Take a look at what has gone on recently in your personal life and see if it there is anything that has triggered ALL this worry!
So sorry for rambling, but my point is - IF you keeping things straight and even etc, - IF that isn't a problem for others then it's NOT a problem! IF you were making people miserable and yourself miserable by it then it is and needs to be dealt with! Keeping things straight and tidy is FAR better then some poor people who wash their hands raw, pull out their hair, disinfect constantly etc.
Also you and I have discussed several issues about your life and because you are so young I think that you might have a bit of anxiety or depression - this WOULD go hand in hand with you keeping things straight - to have some control in your life! There are MANY teenagers who are stressed and become worriers and you are showing CLASSIC signs of anxiety and stress! Worrying about things that aren't in your control! Take a look at what has gone on recently in your personal life and see if it there is anything that has triggered ALL this worry!
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ok ty for you help
but its not the fact that things need to be stragt or neet its just random things like my rooms got loads of things all wonky and lieing about but thyey arnt bothering be but as i looked across my room as a read you post i seen a bottle or vinger and i needed to walk over to it and spin it slightly left or it world bother me for evaa and its not like things i put down some stuff doesnt matter but its not the item like at one point i could just put somthing down and later if i like loved it it could go all annoying and need to slightly tilt or move it till its right..its just its totaly random and a bit strange ..if there was a patten or osmthing it would make more sence
but my pc speekers need to ge moved all the time slightly to the left or right or it will drive me ccrazy
its just so random i dont understand it
and yea my life has been messed up a bit atm...............
but its not the fact that things need to be stragt or neet its just random things like my rooms got loads of things all wonky and lieing about but thyey arnt bothering be but as i looked across my room as a read you post i seen a bottle or vinger and i needed to walk over to it and spin it slightly left or it world bother me for evaa and its not like things i put down some stuff doesnt matter but its not the item like at one point i could just put somthing down and later if i like loved it it could go all annoying and need to slightly tilt or move it till its right..its just its totaly random and a bit strange ..if there was a patten or osmthing it would make more sence
but my pc speekers need to ge moved all the time slightly to the left or right or it will drive me ccrazy
its just so random i dont understand it
and yea my life has been messed up a bit atm...............
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There are of course varying degrees of this disorder AND also you have to start off somewhere right?! If you can trace when this started and what was going on, I think this will give you your answer! I knew - from our conversations that you are having difficulties right now! The BIG thing is to keep an eye on this! IF it is just irritating that is one thing, IF it becomes SO compulsive that it is overtaking your life - even at other people houses THEN you need to get some help and counselling! When my girlfriend comes over to my house - I keep my house clean, but of course NO WHERE near what she does - you can tell that she is uncomfortable and wants to do something, and she can hardly relax! So I basically just go over to her house more! This is better for her, and also myself - because I am at unease because she is! So just keep an eye on it!
IS there anything I can help you with - regarding the "Life has been messed up a bit atm"!!? I am a pro in MANY areas not just penis, OCD, and Tetanus shots!!! ;-) ;-) XD XD XD
IS there anything I can help you with - regarding the "Life has been messed up a bit atm"!!? I am a pro in MANY areas not just penis, OCD, and Tetanus shots!!! ;-) ;-) XD XD XD
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wel the ocd thing has happened for years back when i was like 8 i can remember it but idk probly happend befor that....
it doesnt realy disrupt my life tht much idk just realy wanted to know what it was, and why it happened ,and was so random.
and about my life being messed up i wouldnt know where to start......
it doesnt realy disrupt my life tht much idk just realy wanted to know what it was, and why it happened ,and was so random.
and about my life being messed up i wouldnt know where to start......
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