As stated earlier on all sex is sex but personally I think loosing your virginity is when the pennis is inserted into the vagina
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I am very disappointed from your comment on virginity. If you take virginity from a personal point of view, why did you write "a GIRL is not virgin if she had oral/vaginal/anal sex before"? Why isn't this PERSONAL POINT OF VIEW ON VIRGINITY applied on men? A girl who had oral sex with more than 20 guys is a s***. But a guy in such a situation is a F*****G COOL DUDE.
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That is what I was thinking. Are there any girl out there that has only anal sex? So she will be able to lose her vigina virginity for the right man?
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I slept with a guy for the first time 3 days ago - we both gave each other blowjobs - and that was my first sexual experience
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Yet, sex has the term orgasm in the definition and may it not be, anal "sex" wouldn't give the female an orgasm will it.
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Virginity is a state of innocence. It is the state of not knowing, it is the level of non-personal encounter. Meaning that, the less sexual experience one has, the more likely they'll be a virgin. Thereby, if someone has oral, anal, or penile - vaginal intercourse, then he or she can not be a virgin. How more personal can one get after allowing someone to fool around these parts of the body: the anus, the penis and the vagina, and still considers themselves a virgin. Please, stop fooling yourself. Start looking on this with a moral point of view. Oral sex is on another personal level, it's even more intimate than intercourse! So if you've done this, whether you're a male or female, then you most likely is not a virgin. Likewise, when it relates to anal sex, this is even more personal than vaginal sex! If you can allow someone to put thier penis into your anus, wheter you're a male or a female, then you're not innocent, you're not on the level of non-personal, you've frankly gave away apart of yourself as far as anal and oral sex is concern. Like, how diferrent is the vagina hole different from the anus hole? Think about it, if you allow a penis to go into your anus, how different is it when it enters inside the vagina? These are some next level intimate sh**s, including oral sex! See, after you've performed in these sex acts, you're no longer consider pure, you're no longer at a state to say that you that you do not know, you can't say you're inexperienced, or lacking in the sex department, frankly, you are not innocent. Oral, anal, you did these two besides vagina in penis sex, then it means you're not immune to know what f*****g entails. A person who's more likely to be considered a virgin is someone that has only scrape the surface when it comes to intimacy. This someone is inexperienced but still they might had done a little experiment, like for example, a guy and a girl making out that involves only kissing, carressing certain body parts, and even fingering one another private parts, now these two persons are only tipping the surface, they have not gone all the way, which is, they have not done anal, oral or full out intercourse, they are innocent to these acts. Mind you, I know some might be wondering that if a guy fingers his girlfriend then she is no longer a virgin! Rubbish, his girlfriend will still be a virgin if he fingered her, especially if it was once. And the reason for this is because if a girl fingers her virgin boyfriend penis, does this act make him not a virgin anymore? No it dosen't. Her boyfriend will still be a virgin. Fingering is just a means of exploring their sexuality, it's exploring and caressing each other, it's simply foreplay. And look at it from a doctor's point of view, when a girl goes to do a gyneacologist exam, the doctor will examine her lady parts with his hand, so would the girl after getting this exam done walk out of the doctor's office a non- virgin? Absolutelu not. She'd still be a virgin! As it relates to homosexuals, they too would loose thier virginity after comitting the acts of oral and anal sex. You have to remember virginity is a state of innocence, indulging in oral sex and anal sex wipes away that innocence of not knowing, especially if thete was orgasms involved during these contacts...... A warning though, when something is done once, its out of curiosity, but if it's done twice, trice, then that level of curiosity is no longer pure, no longer innocent, this means if a girl is being continually fingered, you won't technically loose your virginity on a medical level, but on a spiritual and or emotional and or moral level, eventual you'll loose that innocence you have if you don't stop the act of fingering, however if you were only fingered once and has never done oral, anal or penis in vagina sex, then I'm positive that you're still a virgin for sexually you have no real raw, passionate experience as yet! Frankly you've neve orgasm in front of a man, and a man has never orgasm in front of you! It means you have not basically have sex as yet. Now for all of you individuals whove have done oral, and anal sex and is asking if you're still a virgin. Ask yourself this, have'nt you gone too far to be asking this ridiculous question? You already know that within your hearts that you are'nt virgins! Instead of worrying about something that has already gone, you should abstain from doing anymore of these acts until you're completely sure about the person with whom you want to have sex. If he or she is pressuring you into compromising for oral and anal sex, stop, don't do it, and if you've already done it, don't do it again, at least until you are sure you are ready to do sex again. Wait for the right person to have sex with, and don't settle with someone who's pressuring you for sex, or forcing you to settle with oral and or anal sex, because these two are basically sex, and if that someone you're with is saying to you that oral and anal sex won't let you loose your virginity, then they are simply manipulating you. But if you've been maniplulated, remember that it's never too late to take back yoyr pride, tske back your self esteem and walk swsy before it's too late. And when you walk away, forgive them for thier intentions, and forgive yourself for being foolish. Remember that you're human, you live and you learn, and you become wiser from mistakes! n
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