Hi,
my name is jessica, and i HAD a materbatetion problem. I couldnt help it, i would always do it. But then i found an answer! Its something you probably have in you drawer or in the medicine cabinet, dont its, Vaseline, or Petrolatum Jelly! Yes, its simple. I was doing research about what it dose. I found out the it makes you feel dry. so you dont have the urge to masterbate. It works for me! It may feel ichy but stop yourself and say No i have to stop! Who controls yourself you or your body?? YOU!! so stop yourself and i hope Vaseline Works, you can buy it in an Pharmacie (: Your Wecome :-D
my name is jessica, and i HAD a materbatetion problem. I couldnt help it, i would always do it. But then i found an answer! Its something you probably have in you drawer or in the medicine cabinet, dont its, Vaseline, or Petrolatum Jelly! Yes, its simple. I was doing research about what it dose. I found out the it makes you feel dry. so you dont have the urge to masterbate. It works for me! It may feel ichy but stop yourself and say No i have to stop! Who controls yourself you or your body?? YOU!! so stop yourself and i hope Vaseline Works, you can buy it in an Pharmacie (: Your Wecome :-D
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Yes it is a sin, i have/had that same promblem. What i did was prey with all my heart and all my soul. So far i havent done it for 3 and a half months. Its hard, and when ever a have the erge to do it, i prey.
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Some people will try to convince you that masturbation is a sin.
ALL men and most women masturbate. Those who claim they don't are usually defining it differently or lying.
You can't be hurt from masturbation. But it shouldn't rule your life.
Good luck.
ALL men and most women masturbate. Those who claim they don't are usually defining it differently or lying.
You can't be hurt from masturbation. But it shouldn't rule your life.
Good luck.
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WOW. I guess everyone's entitled to whatever way they want to believe but I don't believe God gave us humans such wonderful pleasures in our bodies just so we could make ourselves miserable by denying ourselves the pleasure. That doesn't fit with my idea of a loving God.
I think those "don't do it" ideas come from a bunch of frustrated old men and women in the church who aren't satisfied in their own sexuality and don't want anyone else to be either.
These are the same people who used to want to circumcise young boys -- and girls--- to stop them from masturbating. How cruel is that?
They also traveled to Hawaii by the boatload to teach the otherwise peaceful natives about Christianity ------ or kill them in the process.
Nice people doing "the Lord's" business.
I think those "don't do it" ideas come from a bunch of frustrated old men and women in the church who aren't satisfied in their own sexuality and don't want anyone else to be either.
These are the same people who used to want to circumcise young boys -- and girls--- to stop them from masturbating. How cruel is that?
They also traveled to Hawaii by the boatload to teach the otherwise peaceful natives about Christianity ------ or kill them in the process.
Nice people doing "the Lord's" business.
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'Lose your place in heaven'!!! Please tell me where in the Bible it reads that if you masturbate you will lose your place in heaven.
The bit I see (Acts 16:31) reads: "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and thou shalt be saved, and thy house".
No mention of, 'but be careful not to masturbate because you may lose that salvation'.
Also, there is no sin so big that God will not forgive you. We live under the grace of God in the New Testament and no longer the laws of the Old Testament.
The bit I see (Acts 16:31) reads: "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and thou shalt be saved, and thy house".
No mention of, 'but be careful not to masturbate because you may lose that salvation'.
Also, there is no sin so big that God will not forgive you. We live under the grace of God in the New Testament and no longer the laws of the Old Testament.
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First of all, I really sympathize with you. I know how it feels when we try to stop masturbating habit but fail every time. In my case the more i resisted to do it the more was the urge to go for it. I lost concentration on studies and was feeling guilty all the time. I am 29 now and i was struggling since i was 15.
Well, it stopped only when i dropped all the resistance to masturbation. When i truly accepted it as absolutely pure way of releasing accumulated energy. Nothing sinful about it! It is actually a natural and healthy thing. and it is an safe alternative provided by nature to relax yourself when you don't have a mate. Remember, you are far better than those who will rape some one or cheat on some innocent girl or get involved with prostitutes just to satisfy their sex drive. These people can be real sinners not you.
So, considering all this, I made my mind set, i started thinking whenever i masturbate i do sex with my thoughts not with the actual girl. this stops the feeling of guilt. Then i gave myself COMPLETE LIBERTY to think about ANY girl, and masturbate when ever i want without slightest resistance. And you know, like a magic, i felt totally in control of my self. I felt proud, free and in charge of my life. The urge to masturbate reduced dramatically because i know at heart that when ever the urge will arrive again i will simply go for it. No stopping or putting resistance!
So, the point is to accept masturbating as a good thing. you know, the people who don't have problem like ours, they don't even think whether masturbating is right or wrong they just go for it whenever they feel like.
Just don't punish yourself, on the contrary love yourself. At dipper level, you need you own love. Trust me on this!!
Well, it stopped only when i dropped all the resistance to masturbation. When i truly accepted it as absolutely pure way of releasing accumulated energy. Nothing sinful about it! It is actually a natural and healthy thing. and it is an safe alternative provided by nature to relax yourself when you don't have a mate. Remember, you are far better than those who will rape some one or cheat on some innocent girl or get involved with prostitutes just to satisfy their sex drive. These people can be real sinners not you.
So, considering all this, I made my mind set, i started thinking whenever i masturbate i do sex with my thoughts not with the actual girl. this stops the feeling of guilt. Then i gave myself COMPLETE LIBERTY to think about ANY girl, and masturbate when ever i want without slightest resistance. And you know, like a magic, i felt totally in control of my self. I felt proud, free and in charge of my life. The urge to masturbate reduced dramatically because i know at heart that when ever the urge will arrive again i will simply go for it. No stopping or putting resistance!
So, the point is to accept masturbating as a good thing. you know, the people who don't have problem like ours, they don't even think whether masturbating is right or wrong they just go for it whenever they feel like.
Just don't punish yourself, on the contrary love yourself. At dipper level, you need you own love. Trust me on this!!
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And there we are, the typical pull one verse out of the bible and use your own 'rema' to explain why it is wrong.
I lust over my wife and I will go to town in a heartbeat ... does this mean Im going to hell now? Or does it mean im sinning? You can lust over anything ... women, cars, beer, whatever. Looking deep into your quote, I think what your really trying to say that when YOU mastubate you have a problem with thinking about allot of women when you should be thinking about your own woman or be thinking about solely how great it feels when its you and only you.
With that said, lets not pull one verse out of the bible and gets things out of context. Its a completly natural thing to pleasure yourself, however, if it is a problem and creates problems for yourself and others around you, then you are creating your own hell. When you are young, that tallywacker is changing and your body is producing new stuff and it feels good when you "let go" and you will do it. You will do it till you die probably. It is the ultimate safe sex!!!
First of all masturbation is a sin. in the bible it says if you lust over a women in your heart then you have already committed adultery. So pretty much, if you dig deeper in the bible you will find out lust is a sin.
Well, when you masturbate, you pretty much imagine a women or some image thus sinning and lusting. brother, the people that tell you this is not a sin are liars. So go to a pastor or christian website and get help from them. This site can't help you everyone is lost in it.
And there we are, the typical pull one verse out of the bible and use your own 'rema' to explain why it is wrong.
I lust over my wife and I will go to town in a heartbeat ... does this mean Im going to hell now? Or does it mean im sinning? You can lust over anything ... women, cars, beer, whatever. Looking deep into your quote, I think what your really trying to say that when YOU mastubate you have a problem with thinking about allot of women when you should be thinking about your own woman or be thinking about solely how great it feels when its you and only you.
With that said, lets not pull one verse out of the bible and gets things out of context. Its a completly natural thing to pleasure yourself, however, if it is a problem and creates problems for yourself and others around you, then you are creating your own hell. When you are young, that tallywacker is changing and your body is producing new stuff and it feels good when you "let go" and you will do it. You will do it till you die probably. It is the ultimate safe sex!!!
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look kid 8) i have a beleaf you probable would lafth at me for. but look is sex a sin (i mean no disrespect to you or your relidgon) if it isn't then nitcher is masterbateing. look your are alive and if you masterbate good just take prid in living i do. life is short and you will have meny surpries.
p.s. look plaese dont dis respect my relidgon i dont disrespect yours my reldigion is greek mithology look it up !
p.s. look plaese dont dis respect my relidgon i dont disrespect yours my reldigion is greek mithology look it up !
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i gave passed this for 4 months and it's killing me.
i stopped like 6 months and then i was back.
till i am now 14 and i can't stop it's harder by the time each time i do do it i belive it's no way i could stop.
i started when i was 12 i stopped my self for allot of time from doing it till i did it back again.
in bast 2 ears i did it like for 5 months by counts.
and i want to say that it's against all the relagion.
and it has damage an human after 30th of his age and it leads to using bills like VgR = viagra and more.
it decreases the male sperm counts.
and for sure each human does it when he is in a quite place no people making noise in the house so his fantasies be turned on by his mind.
that leads to other problems like problems during relationships between a husband and wife,boy friend girl friend during sex.
and for females that's effecting her body making it oughful and decrease the ability for cublles to give birth.
and for both male and female this is not the end of it because when you're not trying to stop this will not end you'll keep doing it and when you're older and trying to stop this would be harder than you could think.
i know that i am young but i know more than any human on earth about human life and how to fix any thing damaged.
i stopped like 6 months and then i was back.
till i am now 14 and i can't stop it's harder by the time each time i do do it i belive it's no way i could stop.
i started when i was 12 i stopped my self for allot of time from doing it till i did it back again.
in bast 2 ears i did it like for 5 months by counts.
and i want to say that it's against all the relagion.
and it has damage an human after 30th of his age and it leads to using bills like VgR = viagra and more.
it decreases the male sperm counts.
and for sure each human does it when he is in a quite place no people making noise in the house so his fantasies be turned on by his mind.
that leads to other problems like problems during relationships between a husband and wife,boy friend girl friend during sex.
and for females that's effecting her body making it oughful and decrease the ability for cublles to give birth.
and for both male and female this is not the end of it because when you're not trying to stop this will not end you'll keep doing it and when you're older and trying to stop this would be harder than you could think.
i know that i am young but i know more than any human on earth about human life and how to fix any thing damaged.
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ya man i am12 and iv been doing it for at least 3 years i feel so bad and i wish that u and could help each other i stoped for 2 weeks and then i didt for 3 days then i stoped for 1 week then did it 5 times now im trieing to do things to stop it and i can give u a hint if ever have the eurge go pee our walk to our play video games listen to some music chat and the phone anything to keep ur mind of it
i feel what u feel
qweasd thanks and i hope i helped
i feel what u feel
qweasd thanks and i hope i helped
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I'm a 16 year old young man who loves Jesus Christ and my girlfriend of about a year. I care about both of them very deeply and I need to stop masturbating because I can't stand the thought of being controlled by lust. Whether you have a faith or not, it is a bad thing to your life. It is a waste of time and it IS a sin. What I think might be a solution is working out, hanging out with friends, staying occupied, thinking of things that disgust you or things that you wouldn't want to masturbate to like a baby or a sibling (when you have the urge), and reminding yourself the positives of chastity. I hope this helps and I will pray for you. Also prayer helps a lot, nothing could do better than the help of God. Liebe.
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It is a sin. It is unhealthy. And is very addictive. I don't care what you think, it's the truth.
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Guys chill just dont look at porn and when u feel the need to masterbate do weights ill will stop myself
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You went three weeks without masterbating? Jesus Christ! What you need is moderation. Try doing it once every day or two and you'll be fine.
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