Can't stop masterbating and its ruining my life!!

Yo wats ur name and wat religion do u belive in cus I hve exactly the same problem,, its happenin to me ryt nw I need help

Actually Hobbit, I believe you lie. For one thing if you were part of a religious institute then you would know that materbating is in itself a form of lustful thinking. Lust is a sin and clearly you didnt know that. Materbating is WRONG for those who are christian, methodist, catholic, and baptist. Lust is a sin that requires you to want something badly, and materbating is a wanting of several things at once; pleasure, women, etc. anyways lust is a dangerous sin for not only does it affect materbation it can affect all areas of life including but not limited to eating food, and sex. My advice is to try fasting it and if you are about to fail think of it like this "Materbate and I burn in hell forever, If I dont materbate then I live a eternity of pure joy forever".

masterbating is very agianst real religion. it is a sin because it is considered a waste of life when you do masterbate semen and masterbating goes side by side with porn and viewing porn is a sin because it is considered adultery in the heart and mind and for married people it is considered cheating

Hey you guys im also 15 and i read the bible all the time i want to stop masterbading so bad and im think its a sin. because if you think of Jesus you never picture him doing somthing like that. I have been trying to stop and when i do somone reason it come back to me to do it again and after i dont i regret it. If you are a christan or cathloc i think you should stop because remeber you thoughts are somthing accountble on judgement day like it say in bible and what you thinking of while you look at women or men while you masterbading it probley bad thing. its call sexual immorality and they wont make it in the kingdom of heaven if you live you life with sexual pleasuer or thoughs.

Hey I masturbate every night I need to stop this bc some will walk in on me 1 day

I understand your religous concerns, In some religions it is considered wrong for men to masterbate and they should wait until marraige. Its normal to have the need to touch yourself especially given your age and your hormones are rising. So first, accept thats its normal for you to want to do it and experiment. Some time the guilt about it is what makes you feel even worst and then you do it more. Its ok to want to do. There is nothing wrong with you, so many boys have that struggle and its so nice that you are sensitive to it and care and want to stop. Focus on the good on yourself and focus on when you do it right. Wow three weeks thats amazing! Keep it up, reward yourself. Dont look at what you didnt do but that you are working towards a goal and you are getting there. Of course it wont end it a day..give it some time. Your feelings will find its place and eventually you will find the right women who will have a wholesome relationship with you. Two, watching porn or things that stimulate make the challange harder so try to avoid that. Three, try to get some hobbies or work out. sometime we feel we need to do that when we have a lot of energy or we dont feel good about ourselves..try to get a healthy outlet where you can put your energy and feel good about yourself. working out helps, try building something. Also it seems that there is an issue with self esteem. You can talk to a therapist, maybe when you feel better about your self you will not need to materbate to make yourself happy but you can find inner happiness from yourself. Talk it over with someone you trust and shares the same religous values. Dont give up, and you can do it, you are succeeding even if you dont see the results right now.

Just stop masturbating...if no one has the right dawm answer is because the problem is not the masturbation but whats inside your head wich can come from pornography or even the street discipline yourself.....look away......if you eat to much hormones and dont workout...it will help alot

Ok, "masterbating" is not a sin, nor the problem. The problem with the bible is that you can't do it lustfully. We aren't supposed to lust so if you can get off without thinking about a girl, your fine!

Hi Vsad it is true that masterbation causes lose of energy n enthusiasm in life it also causes loss of concentration and stamina both physical and mental so just stop it, discipline urself have strong determination to stop it do excersise go out play games n keep good company and remember god almighty He is ocean of love and forgiveness keep spiritual comapny be balanced it is possible to overcome this bad habit that is the best news good luck

Yup i am living in masturbation ie depressed life for around 3-4 yrs it is really good to do this infact released anxiety,stress etc.But as everyone knows too much of anything is bad for all.I am doing it for 9yrs still doing it 5yrs i didnt have depression or stress or any other problem.But when i started doing my UG anxiety came to play in my life and and my interest in studies got low i bunk my classes and i was dropped from my college.After that i had a huge vacation didn't work or rejoin my own college first 6 months it was fine next 6 months i had a serious depression i lost interest in friends,family,pc,tv,games,outing,socializing etc.Then i had a compulsive behaviour which is a disorder which comes due to masturbating too much.You cannot do anything when you have this disorder it dominates you overall you can't do work with full focusing you will be distracted easily and do your usual things(compulsive things).And last but not least i am now facing social problems with strangers and public i panic and sweat social phobia to say.It is very bad don't ever do this if you do you can't come out of this.

in islam its a sin to masterbait and i know cause im a muslim

in islam its a sin to masterbait and i know cause im a muslim

hey, first i want to say u need to calm down a little bit i know it sucks im in the same position as u. eventually a point comes acrossed ur mind telling u that u cant care what people think about u doing it. what u do with that thought is up to u

I am a Christian man and I too had a problem with masterbation when I young. And it can cause depression and anxiety when you know it's a sin but you can't stop doing it. The world will tell you that it's not a sin but the Holy Spirit will speak the truth to your heart. It's not the actual act of masterbation but the lust in your heart thats the sin. It is a sin against Father God and we that are his children won't be comfortable doing it. You should feel blessed that your conscience is telling you that it's wrong instead of following the world down the path of sin and death. In my case, I struggled with masterbation for many,many years and I would stop for a time but start again. It definitely held me back and hurt my relationship with the Lord and I had poor self esteem and it probably kept me from having the life I could have had had I not been in bondage to it. Just pray to the Lord for the will to stop and post your prayer request on Christian prayer sites and if there is a Christian pastor or someone else you could ask them to pray with you ( I never had that courage) What I believe,and it's not so with everyone,but you have the Holy Spirit living inside you and as long as you are doing something you feel is sinful then you will be in conflict with it. I hope you can accept it and stop and grow past it or fight through it and I pray it's not as hard on you as it was for me.

its not as easy to stop the masterbating if u get addicted bt ......try these stop watching porn nd dnt be alone stop feeling guilty