Hi,

So here it is... I' am 20, married, and have sex with my husband regularly. I want to be pregnant, but my husband and I are waiting just a few short months before doing that. Lately though, I have been getting side breast pains (no intense nipple pains though) headaches, extreme fatigue (which comes and goes, nausea (just over the course of the last 4 or 5 days) ,dizziness and cramping in my bladder area either on one side or the other. I'm not on the pill and we don't use condoms, but he never ejaculates into me, maybe around that area, buy he always pulls out. Every time I look up my body issues, or symptoms it always comes up with a pregnancy forum of some sort...I'M NOT PREGNANT. I'm not getting my period for another week or so, and I will if I have to take a test, but every time I get my hopes up about being pregnant I "feel" pregnant, and then it's always negative. It's really confusing, and the only reason I don't think it's PMS, is because of that cramping I mentioned earlier? Right after we had sex I felt a little burning down there, and that usually means that he got a little sperm in or around my vagina, which is seriously no big deal, because I never get pregnant, thats happened before. This time however, a few short days later, I felt cramping around my my bladder area, and then it moved to just below my belly button (sounds like sperm moving right? wrong) I'm barely hungry and when I am I eat a little and I'm full for hours, but sometimes I'm starving, and I can't stop eating. I have allergies which may cause the headaches, but I' am just so at a loss for words. Has anyone had this before? I went to the doctor "last time I thought I was pregnant" and he made me feel like an id**t, and I wasn't pregnant. A friend of mine said sometimes when the egg drops down it causes cramping, but I just don't feel this like that, if it was just cramping maybe. But with all these other factors, its hard to say...

Please Help me, thanks