Hello.
I believe June was the last month that i had an actually period. Im 21 married and i have mixed feelings about the situation. I have taken about 3 pregnancy test and all negative and ive been to thee doctor and she also told me it was negative so i was like YES! bcuz I like to work out and be active but ive gained some weight and wasnt to happy about it. So the doctor kinda crushed me when she told me this. She said even tho the test came back negative that i should hold off from working out bcuz i could still be pregnant bcuz i havent had my period yet bcuz thats supposed to be like the wake up sign that most woman look for. Well i told her all my medical history. That i had been irregular when i was like 15 or so with my period(having only 2 periods a YEAR!) so my mom put me on birth control to help regulate me and it helped, ever since then i have always been on time. Well i had sex with my husband unprotected a couple times these past months and thought nothing of it. Then i missed my period so we took the test and nothing...went to the doctor and nothing. Im starting to get a little depressed bcuz i want to work out and i want to lose this weight ive gained but the doc told me no, for fear that if i am pregnant i could hurt my baby. I was really heavy when i was a teenager and have lost a lot of weight and want to keep it off, i want to do whats best for myself and perhaps my baby if there is one but im frustrated bcuz i hafta wait 2 more weeks to go bak to the doc so i know for sure!!..i need some advice! ive had a couple symptoms that i havent had before.
-headaches
-tiredness (Ive been taking naps and going to bed a little earlier than usual)
-weight gain
-depressed with my appearance.
Maybe its just me?...but anything would help to hear...Thanks so much for reading this
-R.O.
I believe June was the last month that i had an actually period. Im 21 married and i have mixed feelings about the situation. I have taken about 3 pregnancy test and all negative and ive been to thee doctor and she also told me it was negative so i was like YES! bcuz I like to work out and be active but ive gained some weight and wasnt to happy about it. So the doctor kinda crushed me when she told me this. She said even tho the test came back negative that i should hold off from working out bcuz i could still be pregnant bcuz i havent had my period yet bcuz thats supposed to be like the wake up sign that most woman look for. Well i told her all my medical history. That i had been irregular when i was like 15 or so with my period(having only 2 periods a YEAR!) so my mom put me on birth control to help regulate me and it helped, ever since then i have always been on time. Well i had sex with my husband unprotected a couple times these past months and thought nothing of it. Then i missed my period so we took the test and nothing...went to the doctor and nothing. Im starting to get a little depressed bcuz i want to work out and i want to lose this weight ive gained but the doc told me no, for fear that if i am pregnant i could hurt my baby. I was really heavy when i was a teenager and have lost a lot of weight and want to keep it off, i want to do whats best for myself and perhaps my baby if there is one but im frustrated bcuz i hafta wait 2 more weeks to go bak to the doc so i know for sure!!..i need some advice! ive had a couple symptoms that i havent had before.
-headaches
-tiredness (Ive been taking naps and going to bed a little earlier than usual)
-weight gain
-depressed with my appearance.
Maybe its just me?...but anything would help to hear...Thanks so much for reading this
-R.O.
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Hi Rachel! Since they call me the "Queen of Pregnancy" on here I'm sure I will be able to help you here!!! :-D Just answer these questions and we will go from there OK?
1. Are you still on the pill?
2. When did you last have unprotected sex?
3. Did you notice IF you ovulated in July and August? - Cramping, discharge?
4. Do you have ANY discomfort in your ovary area?
Also since even the test at your doctors came back negative, then I would REALLY think that you are NOT pregnant, and go ahead and exercise away!!! I do have another idea what this is, but I just need you to answer these questions first OK?
1. Are you still on the pill?
2. When did you last have unprotected sex?
3. Did you notice IF you ovulated in July and August? - Cramping, discharge?
4. Do you have ANY discomfort in your ovary area?
Also since even the test at your doctors came back negative, then I would REALLY think that you are NOT pregnant, and go ahead and exercise away!!! I do have another idea what this is, but I just need you to answer these questions first OK?
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Well miss thank you for your insight.
No ma'am i havent been on the pill since probably when i was 18. No depo shot either. The shot made me sick. The last unprotected was i believe the second week of august but had unprotected prior to that also. And YES i have had cramping i would be at work and feel bloated and cramping coming on but then just have a little bit much a discharge. I hope you can help me and that its nothing serious. Should i just buy one of the more expensive ones and just take it during my morning pee?
thanks for all your help i truly appreciate it.
R.O.
No ma'am i havent been on the pill since probably when i was 18. No depo shot either. The shot made me sick. The last unprotected was i believe the second week of august but had unprotected prior to that also. And YES i have had cramping i would be at work and feel bloated and cramping coming on but then just have a little bit much a discharge. I hope you can help me and that its nothing serious. Should i just buy one of the more expensive ones and just take it during my morning pee?
thanks for all your help i truly appreciate it.
R.O.
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Thank you miss
Well i havent been on the pill for quite sometime maybe bak when i was 18 or so. I have done the depo shot once but it made me sick so i stopped.
The last time unprotected was probably the second week of august, but also had unprotected sex in the prior months also.
Yes thee cramping is always on and off...i thought for sure this past month i would be starting my period. I started cramping real bad and bloating around the time i usually start. When i checked it was nothing but discharge..regular
Now in the ovary parts i do not know...i have just been having the crampings...when i lay on my stomache it feels weird like a balloon or something :-).
I hope that helps and i thank you for helping me also. I hope what you know is nothing serious
R.O
Well i havent been on the pill for quite sometime maybe bak when i was 18 or so. I have done the depo shot once but it made me sick so i stopped.
The last time unprotected was probably the second week of august, but also had unprotected sex in the prior months also.
Yes thee cramping is always on and off...i thought for sure this past month i would be starting my period. I started cramping real bad and bloating around the time i usually start. When i checked it was nothing but discharge..regular
Now in the ovary parts i do not know...i have just been having the crampings...when i lay on my stomache it feels weird like a balloon or something :-).
I hope that helps and i thank you for helping me also. I hope what you know is nothing serious
R.O
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Hello! I first want you to go get a blood test for pregnancy! This will determine once and for all if you are pregnant!
IF it comes out negative, I would like your doctor to organize a Pelvic/Internal/Vaginal Ultrasound! IF you are having unprotected sex and no period AND you aren't pregnant, then it WILL have to do with your ovaries! Since you were irregular when you were younger, you probably have the same thing! Cystic Ovaries - It's nothing to worry about OK? MANY women have this in verying degrees, from one to polycystic ovary syndrome - multiple cysts!! This causes symptoms of pregnancy - bloating, nausea, cestasion of periods, cramping etc. So lets get you checked out OK? And please let me know how you make out!
IF it comes out negative, I would like your doctor to organize a Pelvic/Internal/Vaginal Ultrasound! IF you are having unprotected sex and no period AND you aren't pregnant, then it WILL have to do with your ovaries! Since you were irregular when you were younger, you probably have the same thing! Cystic Ovaries - It's nothing to worry about OK? MANY women have this in verying degrees, from one to polycystic ovary syndrome - multiple cysts!! This causes symptoms of pregnancy - bloating, nausea, cestasion of periods, cramping etc. So lets get you checked out OK? And please let me know how you make out!
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Sorry it took me so long to write back, I finally got to the doctor and had my annual. Well the doctor told me that the reason my period being late is because i may have diabetes. Im 21 and weigh about 183. When i was 18-19 i weighed 217 pounds i've lost a good amount and I've tried the hardest to lose weight but i seem to be stuck at this weight now. I'm scared because I don't want to get or have diabetes I've tried my hardest to stay away from sugar and fatty foods. But that was the outcome of my doctors appt. so any suggestions would help
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Dear Queen of Pregnancy,
I would like to say that your info is very helpful but i too have a question for you. i am 25 years old and have 4 kids. i have had 5 pregnancies. i also have had 3 c-sections. i am very regular with my periods every 25/28 days. now i am late and i have taken all the tests that you would take to see if you are pregnant ( blood, ultrasound, and pee) and they showed that i wasn't pregnant. i am only about 3-4 days late. my question for you is, could i be pregnant even if the tests show that i am not pregnant???? Also do you think that my 3 c-sections that i had could effect my period?? i was fine from my last c-section that was in 10/2008 all the way up to now. my last period which was august the 22nd that was fine and on time and now this month i am having this issue. my husband and i are trying for one more so we would be happy if i was but i have never ever had this happen to me before o.O !!!!i was reading on the Internet that a blood test will show 5-7 days after i conceive and a ultrasound with pickup a pregnancy at 5-7 wks into a pregnancy! so i thought that maybe i am to early for the tests to show %-) ? i am having the signs of being pregnant but no answer for sure that i am. am i out of my mind or is there a possibility that i am pregnant??? PLEASE HELP! thank you so much for your time Maureen
I would like to say that your info is very helpful but i too have a question for you. i am 25 years old and have 4 kids. i have had 5 pregnancies. i also have had 3 c-sections. i am very regular with my periods every 25/28 days. now i am late and i have taken all the tests that you would take to see if you are pregnant ( blood, ultrasound, and pee) and they showed that i wasn't pregnant. i am only about 3-4 days late. my question for you is, could i be pregnant even if the tests show that i am not pregnant???? Also do you think that my 3 c-sections that i had could effect my period?? i was fine from my last c-section that was in 10/2008 all the way up to now. my last period which was august the 22nd that was fine and on time and now this month i am having this issue. my husband and i are trying for one more so we would be happy if i was but i have never ever had this happen to me before o.O !!!!i was reading on the Internet that a blood test will show 5-7 days after i conceive and a ultrasound with pickup a pregnancy at 5-7 wks into a pregnancy! so i thought that maybe i am to early for the tests to show %-) ? i am having the signs of being pregnant but no answer for sure that i am. am i out of my mind or is there a possibility that i am pregnant??? PLEASE HELP! thank you so much for your time Maureen
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Hi Maureen: the test ALL depend on when and IF you conceived! So your last period was August 22, so at the most you would be 23 days, this is too early to tell! So lets wait 1 more week, THEN try the good old HPT - get the good kind, the one that tells you how far along you are! And then IF that shows negative, I would like you to get a blood test from you doctors office! I don't know of any blood test showing a pregnancy after 5 - 7 days, as both blood and urine tests depend on the HCG levels - pregnancy hormones! I know that a blood test can be done sooner, and is way more decisive! So lets wait 1 more week OK? And in the mean time, take prenatal vitamins they have been shown to increase a womans chance of conceiving!!! The C-Section has NOTHING to do with your fertility - unless they hurt the ovaries! But believe me you would DEFINITELY know this by now!
Try and relax - I know that's easier said than done - but you can make yourself believe you are pregnant ande your brain will think it is and actually create symptoms of pregnancy! So just try and keep you mind off of it for now OK? And then see if you period comes on by itself or there is a "little sumfin sumfin" stopping it from happening!!! XD XD ;-)
Let me know how you make out OK? Good luck and health and I will keep my fingers and toes crossed for you!
Try and relax - I know that's easier said than done - but you can make yourself believe you are pregnant ande your brain will think it is and actually create symptoms of pregnancy! So just try and keep you mind off of it for now OK? And then see if you period comes on by itself or there is a "little sumfin sumfin" stopping it from happening!!! XD XD ;-)
Let me know how you make out OK? Good luck and health and I will keep my fingers and toes crossed for you!
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thank you so much for your info!!! well i did get my period on the 21st of this month so no baby :'( !! so would have to try again!!! maybe you can give me some tips :-) on how i can get pregnant faster!! my husband is 43 years old so we want to do this before he gets toooooo old XD !!!! i am 25 years old so i am ready to do this!!! XD !!! thank you sooooo much bambi27!!! you are the best!!!!!!! :-D
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Hi Maureen: 1st of all start taking prenatal vitamins - as this has been shown to increase fertility! Try to have sex as much as possible, I know some feel that this lessens the sperm count, but I'm of the mind that the more you try the better your odds! AND it has a positive affect on your relationship, when you don't treat it as a "job" if you know what I mean!
1. So start with the vitamins!
2. Help out mother nature by tilting your pelvis - with the use of a pillow under your buttocks - and laying like that all night after making love!! This helps out the sperm getting to their destination!
3. Have your husband wear cotton and loose underwear! Sperm are VERY sensitive to heat!
4. Listen to your body! - Excuse my crudity - but if you feel "turned on!!!" then that is your body telling you it is time to have sex!
As we go through our lives, we get used to NOT listening to our bodies, our bodies tell us when something is wrong or right! As many women on here can tell you, they KNEW they were pregnant, even though doctors and tests tell them that they aren't! And low and behold they ARE! So don't give up and keep positive about it! Due to the fact there is nothing wrong, just enjoy this time together and know that this WILL happen for you OK? Good luck and health honey!
1. So start with the vitamins!
2. Help out mother nature by tilting your pelvis - with the use of a pillow under your buttocks - and laying like that all night after making love!! This helps out the sperm getting to their destination!
3. Have your husband wear cotton and loose underwear! Sperm are VERY sensitive to heat!
4. Listen to your body! - Excuse my crudity - but if you feel "turned on!!!" then that is your body telling you it is time to have sex!
As we go through our lives, we get used to NOT listening to our bodies, our bodies tell us when something is wrong or right! As many women on here can tell you, they KNEW they were pregnant, even though doctors and tests tell them that they aren't! And low and behold they ARE! So don't give up and keep positive about it! Due to the fact there is nothing wrong, just enjoy this time together and know that this WILL happen for you OK? Good luck and health honey!
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thank you so much for ALL of your help!!!! you are so smart!!! you should be a doctor or something in that field!!! you are soooo great to give me your time as i know that time is soo precious to us all!!! i dont know how to thank you but to say thank you and i will keep you posted on how things go!!!! ;-)
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Thankyou Maureen! That is very nice of you to say! I have met a lot of wonderful people being a Supporter! And it helps me when I can help others. So thanks again and looking forward to hearing good news from you1
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Dear Miss bambi, pls pretty pls cud u help me out. the last day of my period was on nov 19 which was the day i had unprotected sex. i have nt a had a period since then. at the mo i am bleeding lighlty was is abnormal 4 me. my periods r always on time. i am experiencing all the tall tell signs of pregz except vomiting. 3 neg preg test x a neg blood test. pls help
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Hello can you help me . I am 21 and I had unpertected sex my first time Ihad sex april 7 .I did not have my period since that day it been 2 months since I seen my period I had 2 blood pregnacy test and 1 pee test they all was negative. Could the test be wrong because I been nausea and cramping .before I had sex my first time my period was regular.
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U no i have to same thing but IM 25 n great health and shape. But i am irregular every other month ill have a period but i also have cysts. On my ovaries. And my ovarian. Cyst. I think is a problem. From me having a baby to
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