right so, two nights ago i had sex with my boyfriend. he ended up grabbing a condom from his mate and it was, extremely small. he kept checking all the way threw to make sure it wasn't broken, he came then when he took it off he gave it a better check then well threw it away, he never said anything but i think it spilt. i didn't really think so then but now im not to sure. the day after i had really bad abdominal pains and still do second day after. i have no idea what it can be and surprise surprise im 17. im not on birth control and normally id tell him were not doing it till he had proper protection. i feel so stupid.. and i cant go to my parents because my family.. is very proper and 'respectful' id never hear the end about it. even if i ended up to be fine.
any ideas..?
any ideas..?
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Hi Hun: You didn't mention if this was your 1st time. So I will give you 2 scenarious. If this is your 1st time, there WILL be cramping, due to the fact that something went up far into you vagina. If it isn't your 1st time, and you guys were "going at it - so to speak (sorry if that sounds crude) - then he could have reached the top of your vagina. And that CAN hurt, kind of like a cramp. Your vagina is a muscle, and if you hurt or stretch a muscle of ANY kind, you will get pain in that muscle, right? So same thing.
If it split while insdie, you would know that. He seemed to pretty consciencious about making sure it wasn't broken. So I'm pretty sure he would have told you it had broken. Even though condoms break quite often, most of them have spermicide on them as well. So you should be OK! Fingers crossed. It is best for you to be protected as well, double protection is the next best protection of not getting pregant - Number 1 being abstenance of course! so get some protection, and ALWAYs ALWAYS make sure you boyfriend has a condom. If he is not prepared - just like 2 nights ago. Make sure you are! Because if there is NO condom, a baby could be the least of your worries right? So take it easy and consider your health and how comfortable YOU are with everything. If it feels wrong it's wrong! Always follow your "spidey sense!" That's what I tell my kids! Good luck hun!
If it split while insdie, you would know that. He seemed to pretty consciencious about making sure it wasn't broken. So I'm pretty sure he would have told you it had broken. Even though condoms break quite often, most of them have spermicide on them as well. So you should be OK! Fingers crossed. It is best for you to be protected as well, double protection is the next best protection of not getting pregant - Number 1 being abstenance of course! so get some protection, and ALWAYs ALWAYS make sure you boyfriend has a condom. If he is not prepared - just like 2 nights ago. Make sure you are! Because if there is NO condom, a baby could be the least of your worries right? So take it easy and consider your health and how comfortable YOU are with everything. If it feels wrong it's wrong! Always follow your "spidey sense!" That's what I tell my kids! Good luck hun!
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