I here resonantly found out my older sister is using. It's hard to bare with the fact that her life has come to this. I've tried helping her several time's and she won't let anyone talk to her about it. She then gets angry at me for not trying and then trys to make me feel bad for not talking to her. I've tried helping her and she get's angry at me and her and i used to be close which hurts because shes my sister and i love her. but it's hard to help someone who doesn't want help. She has tried having me do the things she's doing and has tired getting me in situations with these things and i have cut her off from my life am i wrong to have done this. Because every time she come's into the house it's the same story just different people. It's always been about my sister. Yes there is some jealously there ,but that's not why im not talking to her. and the thing is when she come's in she wants money and she's always starting something and then it ends up in a big argument. What should i do because i've tried everything i've even tired staying with her and talking calmly. it ended in an argument and me going home. She won't face it and it worries me she's a smart girl and is throwing her life away. There's so many things i want to do for her ,but I can only help if she wants it.