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In advance, I have copied this question. There is also a copy on Yahoo Answers (js) Before I post the question, this is an example of how upset I can get because of something. I was watching vines on youtube, and I was watching them for about an hour, and one came up that showed about plot twists, and it showed someone quickly touch themselves, and then silly string was sprayed in their face. I instantly knew what they meant, and I also instantly felt as my happy, laughy mood flew away faster than light and was replaced with a depressing mood that made me want to have a breakdown. I somehow didn't have a breakdown (I don't know, maybe because I have been upset for almost 40 days?) Anway sorry for long intro AWWWW HERE IT GOES! (Kenan & Kel referance Hey I need a little happiness today.) Hello everyone, this is very hard to talk about, but I have a problem. I am starting to get very upset about the fact that I can't ejaculate yet. I know I shouldn't be worried about it but it really upsets me. I am very developed for my age and I don't know what to do anymore. I have been upset about this for more than a month and I am starting to lose my mind. People have even notice a change in my behavior. I don't know how to be patient. Mostly all of my friends can, not to mention that I started puberty when I was 10! I don't know how to get it off my mind since it's all I think about. Simple reminders can make me want to lay down and have a break down(Perfect example is the silly string vine). I need to get this off my mind. P.S. I get pre-***. How do I keep this off my mind when it starts bothering me? I can take this sadness much longer. I usually just cannot keep it off my mind. I was doing so good in keeping it off my mind watching vines and that DAMN vine had to pop up! It completly ruined my night!! Thank you in advance for answers (This was made last night but had to be re-writen due to deletion) ~One Who Needs Help

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Hey One I completely understand your stress and your frustration. I was a late bloomer in terms of being up to ejaculate. I know how hard it can be especially when all your friends ejaculate or you can see them do it and then you can't. You mentioned you have pre-cum....Can you elaborate on that part? what makes you think it's pre-ejaculate, and not actual semen?
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I am the OP, but it wouldn't let me see the reply so I made an acc and now I can see it. I think it's pre-cum because it's very slippery, it comes out BEFORE I orgasm, and it's clear.
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And it doesn't shoot/dribble out. It's just at the tip of my penis. And it's only a few drops
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I am very downabout it and cannot keep it off my mind what so ever.

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I mean, I wish I had the old me back, the one who talked about Black Ops II all the time, the fun one, not the one who goes around, telling people they are sad because they can't ejaculate. I am scared I will not get the old me back until it happens and god knows when it will!

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Hey again what you described does sound like pre-ejaculate. So you are able to orgasm correct? What does it feel like when you do? You mentioned about being very developed. How long ago did you start getting pubic hair? Unfortunately there is really nothing you can do to speed up your development but there are others like you out there and that also helps to cope with what's going on. What do your friends say about you not being able to ejaculate? Are you sure all your friends can ejaculate?
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When I orgasm, I feel very intesnse throbbing in my penis, and it makes me breathe heavy and I usually groan a bit, and I don't wanna let go. I have had pubic hair for 2 years (10). My friends don't really say anything. Not all of my friends have said they can, I can't really remember how many but I can remember 2 close friends, One of my friends can and he's 1 1/2-2 months older than me. He said I have to wait. (Which is true, and I am really happy they are not being jerks about it.) I don't feel the same because I have had about 4 breakdowns about it since 6-6-14-7/15/14 I can't imagine anyone else doing that. Although, the other friend who said he can, I don't really believe, but then again the one who is 2 months older than me kinda deranked himself saying his penis is 5 1/2in. Is that possible at our age? Because right now I am about 3in erected.

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Hey again, It sounds like you do have precum and you are orgasming which are good things!! It shouldn't be too long before you can ejaculate. Does any liquid come out at all when you orgasm? As for your friend it's very possible that he does have semen it is not uncommon for 7 th and 8 th graders to have semen. And for penis size..... Everyone develops at different rates. There are several kids his age who's penises are 5 in or larger but there are also several who are smaller . It depends on genetics. The average length for an erect adult penis is 5-6 in. So you have entry of time to grow... I myself was a slow grower my penis was smaller like yours for a while but my best friends was 7.5 in 8 th grade!! So everyone is different
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I'm not really sure, sometimes, when I orgasm, it looks like something slowly comes out but I don't know if it just precum. 1 minute there is just one straight line of pre-cum on my glans, next (while I orgasm) the entire left side of my glans is covered. Like I said I am really not sure. I would talk to my dad about it, but he lost a battle to cancer when I was 5. Is it bad to masturbate everyday if I cannot ejaculate yet?
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I don't want to get too upset about this, but sometimes it just over powers me..
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I am even seeing little blonde hairs start to grow all over my chest. Isn't that supposed to happen at a later age?
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Hey there I'm very sorry to hear about your dad I know it's not easy growing up without him. As for chest hair I've known some kids to have chest hair in 6 it 7 th grade but yes most are later in Highschool or college. I think you may b stating to ejaculate some. When you first start ejaculating it will resemble pre cum until all of your glands are functioning then it will get more milky. I definatly wouldn't stress about it And it is not harmful toaster ate before you can ejaculate. Oh and FYI not everyone " shoots" semen many guys the semen just flows out!!
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Sometimes, if I masturbate too fast, nothing at all, not even pre cum comes out. So are you saying I am ejaculating and I have been upset for no reason?
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And yeah, it is pretty hard to ask mom about guy stuff :$ lol

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