my bf wants to have sex with me but i heard that it hurts does it hurts?
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First, the question is not about pain. If you are not ready (and this question makes me think you are not really ready) then the answer to him is no sex.
When you are ready to have sex, then sex can be very pleasurable. You may experience some pain at first as a female if your hymen is not broken. You can check this with a mirror and flashlight (google hymen for a diagram to know what you are looking at). Once the hymen is broken and the initial pain is gone you will be fine.
Most importantly, when you are ready to lose your virginity make sure the guy goes slow. You will also need to have the proper protection of condoms to prevent possible STD's and pregnancy. Last, get some KY for lube. Relax and enjoy.
When you are ready to have sex, then sex can be very pleasurable. You may experience some pain at first as a female if your hymen is not broken. You can check this with a mirror and flashlight (google hymen for a diagram to know what you are looking at). Once the hymen is broken and the initial pain is gone you will be fine.
Most importantly, when you are ready to lose your virginity make sure the guy goes slow. You will also need to have the proper protection of condoms to prevent possible STD's and pregnancy. Last, get some KY for lube. Relax and enjoy.
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