EAR AND NECK PAIN, NAUSEA,VERTIGO,

Hi! I hope someone can help. This past Dec. I had gotten sick thought it was the flu but after 4 days and not getting better I went to the ER to be told I had a double ear infection and vertigo which was causing the nauseaness. I was but on antibiotic and pain meds. Wtih in a few days I was much better and able to go back to work{I'm a switch board operator} to have it all happen again in a few weeks. This time I was able to go to an afterhousr clinic and was told it was back you just got here before it got really bad, was put on the antibiotic again. I was fine for a few weeks. It just keeps coming back. I'm seeing an ENT but so far were just testing. Here are my complaints: ear pain anywhere fron a 3-10, sounds are very load now to me,pain runs down my neck from my ears
in to my shoulders,and nausea{not just that pucking and the runs}
I am a type 2 diabetic and have undercontrol high bloodpresure and have lost 10 1/4 pounds with weight watchers. I am a single mom now of 2 teenage boys. My mom lives w/us. My husband passed away almost 3 yrs ago from chondrosarcoma cancer and my dad 2 yrs also from lung cancer
Yes I am under a lot of stress but no more then 3 years as a care giver/parent/nurse cook etc... Can any one help me please. I have had people ask about brain tumors, MS, clots etc... I had my tonsiles removed
when I was 3 yrs old no major problems from that and not many ear infections as a kid just swimmers ear. I have not been swimming since last summer. Thanks so much for your help