I am going for an abortion next week. I broke up with my partner a little while ago and we saw each other 6 weeks ago and I got pregnant. I didn't realise until a few weeks ago, and after two weeks of me sleeping with my ex, he told me he now has a new girlfriend.
When I called him to tell him I am pregnant he hung up the phone, and has called me once only to say get the f&^% out of my life, when I hung up on him.
I have had to leave my job because I have been so sick and tired... and I have a lot of support from my girlfriends but still can't get my head around being accused of lying and saying i'm pregnant to get him back. I don't expect anything from him, it would have just been really good if he could have honoured his responsibilities and supported me through this.
I know I need to realise he's not worth even wasting my thoughts and energy on, but this is a very emotional time. Now I am even more worried about how I am going to feel once this is all over and done with. For all of those ladies out there who have your partners to help you through this is pretty big in itself. Just having someone there to give you a cuddle and hold your hand means so much.
I have always wanted to be a mum - my mum had 8 kids and I will be an amazing mother. Never imagined it would be like this the first time I did....
Trying to look on the bright side...
When I called him to tell him I am pregnant he hung up the phone, and has called me once only to say get the f&^% out of my life, when I hung up on him.
I have had to leave my job because I have been so sick and tired... and I have a lot of support from my girlfriends but still can't get my head around being accused of lying and saying i'm pregnant to get him back. I don't expect anything from him, it would have just been really good if he could have honoured his responsibilities and supported me through this.
I know I need to realise he's not worth even wasting my thoughts and energy on, but this is a very emotional time. Now I am even more worried about how I am going to feel once this is all over and done with. For all of those ladies out there who have your partners to help you through this is pretty big in itself. Just having someone there to give you a cuddle and hold your hand means so much.
I have always wanted to be a mum - my mum had 8 kids and I will be an amazing mother. Never imagined it would be like this the first time I did....
Trying to look on the bright side...
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I was going through the "temp posts" to move them to the appropriate forum and saw yours and HAD to come say something because i know EXACTLY how you feel.
Last year while i was seperated from my husband i got pregnant to my supposed "boyfriend" who turned out to be a real ASS. He did pretty much the same thing only much more hateful trying to say I was only saying this to 'trap' him...mind you we are all adults, in our 30s and I had no reason to "trap" him i didn't even really like him (lol) at any rate i hate to say it now but i seriously considered the beg A word as I was so sick from the begining, hospitalized ALL the time, and i went back to my husband (after realizing how hard it is to find a man as good as him) and knew it wasnt fair to him to raise anothers child. Well, over a year later as i hold my beautiful son in my arms i thank God every day I couldnt get the guts to do it- I am telling you this so you know things CAN still be good if you have a child to an ass- yes, the pregnancy was hard being so sick and for the most part alone but my husband accepts this boy as his own now (as does his family) and the "ASS" has even tried to make amends (i feel its too little too late but if i needed child support i would get him for it!) You CAN do it and be happy- I am so thankful for my little boy and i couldnt imagine my life without him- Thats just my story and i know ultimately you need to do whats best for you....Just make sure you think it through (i too had to give up my job but there are programs that will help you threw this) as abortion is one think you cant change your mind on- Adoption is - just some food for thought- i pray you make the right decision for YOU if you want to talk more just let me know and ill PM you my email- Good luck and know you WILL make it through no matter what you decide
Last year while i was seperated from my husband i got pregnant to my supposed "boyfriend" who turned out to be a real ASS. He did pretty much the same thing only much more hateful trying to say I was only saying this to 'trap' him...mind you we are all adults, in our 30s and I had no reason to "trap" him i didn't even really like him (lol) at any rate i hate to say it now but i seriously considered the beg A word as I was so sick from the begining, hospitalized ALL the time, and i went back to my husband (after realizing how hard it is to find a man as good as him) and knew it wasnt fair to him to raise anothers child. Well, over a year later as i hold my beautiful son in my arms i thank God every day I couldnt get the guts to do it- I am telling you this so you know things CAN still be good if you have a child to an ass- yes, the pregnancy was hard being so sick and for the most part alone but my husband accepts this boy as his own now (as does his family) and the "ASS" has even tried to make amends (i feel its too little too late but if i needed child support i would get him for it!) You CAN do it and be happy- I am so thankful for my little boy and i couldnt imagine my life without him- Thats just my story and i know ultimately you need to do whats best for you....Just make sure you think it through (i too had to give up my job but there are programs that will help you threw this) as abortion is one think you cant change your mind on- Adoption is - just some food for thought- i pray you make the right decision for YOU if you want to talk more just let me know and ill PM you my email- Good luck and know you WILL make it through no matter what you decide
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