Me and my husband have been together for 9 years. Every since I knew him he has been very hard to get outta bed in the morning. Its to the point were he is verbally abusive to me.. Even though I make him his lunch and make coffee... We have recently had a child, our son is 4 months old. I though by having a son he would want to go to work to support his familly, but things are just as bad as ever... HE calls me names and gets really really upset. Even thought I wake him up as nicely as possible.. I feel (when he does this) that I want to leave him.. I try my hardest to make him happy ... I do all the cleaning cooking and laundry...... Its still not enough.. I am currently on mat leave and feel that I sould go back to work to support our son properly... I have a very good well paying career... I dont know what to do anymore... Anyone help?????
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My husband is also mean in the morning. its like he is a total different person. Your husband sounds like he is being very unsupportive and selfish. Me and my husband have a one year old and i feel that if i have to get up in the AM then he does too because we are in this together. if you are working and he is at home he is going to have no choice to get up in the morning and take care of the baby(if you work in the AM) Even if you working in the evenings then he should still get up. if he is not working he should be showing you more support. He needs to know that when you have a baby or when there is work to be done then those sleeping in days are over. Talk to him about it when he is up and not his grumpy self . Let him know how it feels . If that dosent help have him go to counsling with you. Hope things get better InshaAllah Salamulakum
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I am engaged and my fiance is crazy in the morning , but no kids. I will wake him up and he always says 5 more minutes. Finally after the 3rd 5 minutes he wakes up saying rude things like "F**K you" and "you stupid c**t" then if he's dropping me off at my mom's house in the early morning on my days off(because I get bored at the apartment) he starts accusing me of cheating and then I get out of that topic and he starts on how I'm always at my mom's by the time were close to dropping me off he starts calling me more names saying I don't want a kiss or a hug when you get out you stupid b**ch or if you try I have no problem smacking you. But it's only in the AM he only really acts like it
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WTH that is not right at all, whether it's AM or PM who shouldn't be like that to you or even threaten to smack you. Thats a huge red flag
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