My husband is fairly long but a Lil less in thickness. I'm average and tight until I get arroused then, very wet. Sometimes involuntary. Its causing my hubby to watch porn and not be with me. I very distraught about it. I'm on no birth control and I'm 31. This has always been an issue in my sex like but is getting worse. and most men loved it but its not as sexy as most think. I'm afraid to make love because I know he will go soft then watch porn instead. Towels don't work but for a minute. What medication or options do I have. I'm mortified and very depressed about this.