I've been with my girlfriend just over 10 months and just over a month ago i was thinking over and over to my self, "do i love her" and sometimes this argument in my head lasted a few hours before finally deciding yes or no. A few days after this i decided to split with her then realising i had made a huge mistake so i got back with her. Now i am feeling the most anxious i have ever felt, i feel sick to the stomach and i will literally sit and argue with my self (in my head) of whether or not i love her. On the occasion though i get bursts of emotion where i think to my self how much i love her then within an instant that feelings goes and i'm back to the arguing in my head. I couldn't ask for anyone better than her though, our relationship is great, she makes me laugh, we rarely argue and i have nothing bad to say about her. So quite frankly i do not know what the problem might be ? Has anyone experienced this before and if so what was it and is there help available to me ? Just to be clear these arguments in my head got so much worse after the breakup but i am so literally sure she is the one for me. Any help would be much appreciated !