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okay...i need some sort of guidance or info. I'm 16 years old girl and very clueless Cuz well i'm a newbie with having a b.f It's been about 5 months since i have gotten with my b.f., he's my first real relationship. And he's very liberal....and i have been raised in the old fashion modest ways. Mainly cuz i'm catholic, i respect my religion to a point. But however me and my b.f recently got to third base...and its rather scary. Cuz i'm enjoying it but i'm wondering if there are any medical hazards that can occur due to fingering.
i make him wash his hands and keep his nails trimmed...but still
i'm very clueless with this whole aspect of this, and i'd really really appreciate some info....cuz i don't want to get anything weird and whatnot

and how do i know if i'm still a virgin...cuz i heard fingering can rupture the hymen....and for me that's not good...mainly due to my parents

and....recently today i have developed cramps due to the fingering my b.f did to me....i'm really worried...it mayb be my period cuz its due to coming soon..but still...i normally never get cramps...

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Hi. As long as his hands are clean and his fingernails are trimmed there is no problems with fingering.
You can't lose your virginity from fingering - only from penetration sex. You may rupture the hymen, but this is not losing virginity.
I would say that the cramping is from your impending period as fingering is not known to cause cramps.
Hope this helps
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Actually thats wrong! you CAN loose your virtue from fingering! If his fingers are quite long than its possible! Sadly thats how i lost it! =[ But it could be possible that that could be the problem!
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Ok no, losing your virginity from a finger is NOT a thing. Yes, you could break the hymen but you can also do that during vigurous sports and such. Just because your hymen is broken does not mean you have had sex. If someones penis has entered your vagina then yeah you're no longer a virgin. But if not, don't worry about it. You still have your virginity.
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Can u pls tell me how long were his fingers? Coz my bf's fingers are long too
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