My boyfriend is waiting until I'm ready for us to have sex, so we do the whole mutual masturbation stuff with each other.
He's fingered me a lot during the past 2 months and it feels good. But after a while, he started to do it deeper and it would hurt a lot. Even though I would pull his hand away and I told him it hurts, we're kinda the S&M type (lol as loosely as I can use that term) and so I guess he figured I liked it even though it hurt. And whenever he came over and would finger me, he still did it. (He doesnt hav long nails either, so I doubt he scratched me or anything.)
The first time he went that deep and it hurt a lot, it continued hurting for hours after. I was so sore there and it felt like i had to pee, but nothing happened.
Over time, he would still do it and the last time it didnt hurt at all so I figured I had gotten used to it and I could just enjoy the feeling. But then he noticed a bit of blood on his fingers ... this was about a week after my period ended, but I doubt they're related. It was kinda embarrassing and he was just like "what's that? I popped your cherry...?"
I've also noticed this bad smell and darker color when I pee and this has been going on for about 2 weeks. I don't know if I got some sort of infection from the fingering or something I got on my own. (I've had 2 UTI's when I was little cause I never used public bathrooms and I'd wait until I got home.) I considered that maybe I'm not drinking enough water and it's summer, so I drank only water today, a couple bottles (and only ate a bowl of oatmeal for the day otherwise) and my pee looked healthy or clear and I didn't notice the smell.
did I lose my virginity from my boyfriend fingering me? did he "pop my cherry"?
(and yeah I get that losing your virginity means having intercourse, but is it possible in the 'physically' sense?)
is the bleeding thing normal ?
I don't use tampons, I use pads, so could he have damaged something, namely my hymen ?
(I dont even know where the hymen is (inside? over the opening? ) ... and I know they say girls usually break them from running and physical activities when they're young, but still ...)
and should I be concerned about my little bathroom issue ??
He's fingered me a lot during the past 2 months and it feels good. But after a while, he started to do it deeper and it would hurt a lot. Even though I would pull his hand away and I told him it hurts, we're kinda the S&M type (lol as loosely as I can use that term) and so I guess he figured I liked it even though it hurt. And whenever he came over and would finger me, he still did it. (He doesnt hav long nails either, so I doubt he scratched me or anything.)
The first time he went that deep and it hurt a lot, it continued hurting for hours after. I was so sore there and it felt like i had to pee, but nothing happened.
Over time, he would still do it and the last time it didnt hurt at all so I figured I had gotten used to it and I could just enjoy the feeling. But then he noticed a bit of blood on his fingers ... this was about a week after my period ended, but I doubt they're related. It was kinda embarrassing and he was just like "what's that? I popped your cherry...?"
I've also noticed this bad smell and darker color when I pee and this has been going on for about 2 weeks. I don't know if I got some sort of infection from the fingering or something I got on my own. (I've had 2 UTI's when I was little cause I never used public bathrooms and I'd wait until I got home.) I considered that maybe I'm not drinking enough water and it's summer, so I drank only water today, a couple bottles (and only ate a bowl of oatmeal for the day otherwise) and my pee looked healthy or clear and I didn't notice the smell.
did I lose my virginity from my boyfriend fingering me? did he "pop my cherry"?
(and yeah I get that losing your virginity means having intercourse, but is it possible in the 'physically' sense?)
is the bleeding thing normal ?
I don't use tampons, I use pads, so could he have damaged something, namely my hymen ?
(I dont even know where the hymen is (inside? over the opening? ) ... and I know they say girls usually break them from running and physical activities when they're young, but still ...)
and should I be concerned about my little bathroom issue ??
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i wouldnt worry about it. yes he did pop ur cherry aka ur hymen. but ur still a virgin
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Hiya Chicken! your boyfriend did break your hymen but you are still a virgin so dont worry about that! girls dont USUALLY break them from sport etc but it can happen. the only way you can totally clear your mind about the bathroom issue is to see a doctor just to check everythings ok but if the situation has stopped now then i wouldnt really worry about it further. x x x
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