Call me a worry wort, but this was my first time so go easy on me...
So tonight, my boyfriend and I got a little hot. He fingered me a bit, and I was rubbing him. I felt something wet, though we couldn't determine if it was pre-cum, sweat, whatever...
We then stopped and took a walk outside. This walk was less than 5 minutes. When we got back inside, I think I remember getting hand sanitizer [lol] and applying that.. Then we got back in the moment and I ended up touching myself with the same hand I rubbed him with, forgetting I used that hand.
My grandmother told me that the most dangerous time to get pregnant is right after I get off my period, which is the stage I'm in now. "Even if he has a bit of semen on his fingers"... So now I'm scared that even with the walk outside, and the hand sanitizer, that I might be pregnant. Like I said, this was my first time, and I'm very scared. Please help..
So tonight, my boyfriend and I got a little hot. He fingered me a bit, and I was rubbing him. I felt something wet, though we couldn't determine if it was pre-cum, sweat, whatever...
We then stopped and took a walk outside. This walk was less than 5 minutes. When we got back inside, I think I remember getting hand sanitizer [lol] and applying that.. Then we got back in the moment and I ended up touching myself with the same hand I rubbed him with, forgetting I used that hand.
My grandmother told me that the most dangerous time to get pregnant is right after I get off my period, which is the stage I'm in now. "Even if he has a bit of semen on his fingers"... So now I'm scared that even with the walk outside, and the hand sanitizer, that I might be pregnant. Like I said, this was my first time, and I'm very scared. Please help..
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Adding onto this, for the curious. When I touched myself I didn't exactly insert my fingers in the hole. My fingers were more near the clitoris area.. Would that matter?
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Grr, correction. [Sorry peeps, I don't double check my posts ><] My fingers weren't in the hole at all. They were at the clitoris the whole time.. Once again, does it matter?
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Your fine. you probably have a .000000000000000000000001 chance of being pregnant. Seriously dont worry I am 99.999999999999 % sure your are not pregnant.
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Dear FreakyxOtaku,
Please disregard this post from DanielINC. Most of the time you will NOT get pregnant this way.
I will go as far to say that your are not pregnant. But do me a favor for the future. Please look into getting yourself some birth control. Or at the very least, have bf wear a condom. If your this freaky now, just think how you would react if you actually had unprotected sex?
Planned Parenthood will be able to help you for sure, and if your low on funds, they can work with you as far as payment is concerned. They also GIVE away condoms, for FREE.
Please disregard this post from DanielINC. Most of the time you will NOT get pregnant this way.
I will go as far to say that your are not pregnant. But do me a favor for the future. Please look into getting yourself some birth control. Or at the very least, have bf wear a condom. If your this freaky now, just think how you would react if you actually had unprotected sex?
Planned Parenthood will be able to help you for sure, and if your low on funds, they can work with you as far as payment is concerned. They also GIVE away condoms, for FREE.
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Thank you, I don't plan to do ANYTHING for a while, especially since this all happened while my boyfriend was visiting, and will be returning home this Thursday..
I have a few questions though..
1. If I don't remember when I started my period last month, how can I really determine if I missed my period due to pregnancy THIS month? I know it came before the 18th of last month, and definatley after the 9th... But being a teenager, it's not unusual to actually MISS a period.. I mean I already did once already.
2. My mother or grandmother don't know of the actions that I did, nor do I want them to.. Which leads to how I can possibly try to get a pregnancy test?
3. How sure are you that I'm not pregnant? Like a percentage number? I keep praying to God every night that I'm not pregnant.. I've never even had intercourse yet lol... I'm really scared.. Sorry to sound so immature. I definatley learned my lesson.
I have a few questions though..
1. If I don't remember when I started my period last month, how can I really determine if I missed my period due to pregnancy THIS month? I know it came before the 18th of last month, and definatley after the 9th... But being a teenager, it's not unusual to actually MISS a period.. I mean I already did once already.
2. My mother or grandmother don't know of the actions that I did, nor do I want them to.. Which leads to how I can possibly try to get a pregnancy test?
3. How sure are you that I'm not pregnant? Like a percentage number? I keep praying to God every night that I'm not pregnant.. I've never even had intercourse yet lol... I'm really scared.. Sorry to sound so immature. I definatley learned my lesson.
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Thank you for your reply.. Is it okay if I ask a few more questions?
1. Seeing that you're a moderator, are you a doctor? Or a professional?
2. I don't exactly remember the time I last started my period, so how can I determine if I missed a period this month? Not to mention that it's not unusual for a teenager like myself to miss a period, so how will that work?
3. My mother/grandmother dont know of this, and I dont want them to.. Which leads to how can I get pregnancy test? Wait for my period like in question 1?
4. How sure are you that I'm not pregnant? Like a percentage... 10%, 50%, etc...
I'm sorry to bother you. I definatley learned my lesson and I wont do any of this for a long while. Also since my boyfriend will be returning home to Texas this Thursday. I keep praying to God that I'm sorry for my sins and to please have mercy on me.. I mean thats all I can do right now..
1. Seeing that you're a moderator, are you a doctor? Or a professional?
2. I don't exactly remember the time I last started my period, so how can I determine if I missed a period this month? Not to mention that it's not unusual for a teenager like myself to miss a period, so how will that work?
3. My mother/grandmother dont know of this, and I dont want them to.. Which leads to how can I get pregnancy test? Wait for my period like in question 1?
4. How sure are you that I'm not pregnant? Like a percentage... 10%, 50%, etc...
I'm sorry to bother you. I definatley learned my lesson and I wont do any of this for a long while. Also since my boyfriend will be returning home to Texas this Thursday. I keep praying to God that I'm sorry for my sins and to please have mercy on me.. I mean thats all I can do right now..
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I am not a doctor nor a professional anything, i am just a mom with 5 kids, 3 of the being girls.
The first thing you need to do is calm down. I would say that you are 99.9% NOT pregnant. Sperm does not react well with the open air and can't stand up to hand sanitizers.
If you miss a period, it's probably because your freakin out so bad.
You are not bothering anyone, this is what we are here for. Your actions are no different that a million other red blooded American teenagers and you should not be so hard on yourself. What is done, is done, this is how we learn. We can be our own best teachers or our own worst enemies, which i think you are a little of both right now. You didn't really commit a sin, if that's the case then the majority of the human race are sinners, you just made a little mistake, that's all.
So stop your worry and focus on something else for now. If you miss a period, i'm sure you can always manage to get to a store and get yourself an HPT on the D L. But i don't think it will get that far. Please come back and keep us posted as we are here to listen and offer our advice. Back in the day, i was in your same situation a ton of times. I thought i was pregnant every month, but i did much more stuff than you did.
I am just on the other end of your computer, don't feel stupid.
The first thing you need to do is calm down. I would say that you are 99.9% NOT pregnant. Sperm does not react well with the open air and can't stand up to hand sanitizers.
If you miss a period, it's probably because your freakin out so bad.
You are not bothering anyone, this is what we are here for. Your actions are no different that a million other red blooded American teenagers and you should not be so hard on yourself. What is done, is done, this is how we learn. We can be our own best teachers or our own worst enemies, which i think you are a little of both right now. You didn't really commit a sin, if that's the case then the majority of the human race are sinners, you just made a little mistake, that's all.
So stop your worry and focus on something else for now. If you miss a period, i'm sure you can always manage to get to a store and get yourself an HPT on the D L. But i don't think it will get that far. Please come back and keep us posted as we are here to listen and offer our advice. Back in the day, i was in your same situation a ton of times. I thought i was pregnant every month, but i did much more stuff than you did.
I am just on the other end of your computer, don't feel stupid.
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I will keep you posted. Your word makes me feel a whole lot better, so thank you ^_^
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I will keep you posted, most definatley. Your word makes me feel better, thank you ^_^
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Okay, this is quick, but I have another update lol.
I just went to the bathroom and I saw a little spot in my underwear. I cant tell if it was red or brown due to the underwear being pink.
I wiped, and there was some brown discharge, but there was a red streak as well. Is this just my period or is there something else wrong? I had brown discharge before, but I don't know if this makes anything any different. Thanks.
I just went to the bathroom and I saw a little spot in my underwear. I cant tell if it was red or brown due to the underwear being pink.
I wiped, and there was some brown discharge, but there was a red streak as well. Is this just my period or is there something else wrong? I had brown discharge before, but I don't know if this makes anything any different. Thanks.
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